Let’s be honest everyone enjoys that extra love in valentines day even those who claim to hate it. What we honestly hate deep inside is how commercial it has become. That is totally understandable I hate it too and that is why I always manage to celebrate with friends and loved ones in the simplest way. After all, it’s all about spreading the love in the most simple and detailed way.
Here are some ideas to help you get creative for valentines day:
I would definitely pass with the flowers and chocolates since they aren’t original. But if that’s your style and your loved one is into flowers and chocolate spice it up a little bit. Make it more personal by writing a personal message and if its just flowers write why flowers were a perfect gift. I would also spice it up with some flowers that have some nice meaning.
A Relaxing one
Get some nice essential oils and candles and make your hands the perfect gift. Trust me no one can resist a sexy massage that would lead to a lovely night.
Let’s admit it we know what’s everyone’s goals are after sharing gifts and tons of love. Don’t let anyone tell you that Valentine’s day is not about sex because it can be!
Lingerie would be a nice gift that at the end would be beneficial for you. When considering sexy gifts sex toys for couples and lubricants are always an option. Check out some nice products at our sex toys boutique .
It’s always difficult to make reservations at a place that you know for a fact is going to impress your loved one. It’s always about availability, budgets, and work schedules when Valentines is on a Tuesday night.
Here are some alternatives for that fancy dinner:
Cook their favorite meal
This can never fail especially if you have a good wine and some nice desert. I suggest you incorporate some aphrodisiacs for a more productive night!
In your patio or a park, a picnic is a very intimate and simple way to make dinner more creative. The outdoor will give you guys a different and relaxing moment.
That Extra Mile
With a table, computer, TV, or a very nice organized event this should be a very interesting way to spice your Valentines movie night. Some homemade popcorn and wine would perfectly compliment things as well.
Create some nice sexy coupons for kisses, massages, or a bath together. Be creative, they are your coupons and you use them as you please!
Take advantage of the nice sexy gifts and that sexy time in bed and create a very nice environment. Capture your special moment and create a private album just for the two of you to enjoy as many times as you like.
Create a playlist
This is something that I personally love, to create a playlist for every possible moment in my life especially with my significant other. A sex playlist is a must for Valentine’s Day plus imagine having background music when making love. It just gives the moment a special feeling. You can use Spotify or the Apple Music app.
Happy Valentine’s day, Enjoy!
A first date does not have to be intimidating anymore. It’s 2017 it doesn’t matter if you both swiped right, bumped into each other at some nice bar, or some friends set up the date for you two. Nowadays arranging a date is more comfortable and easy than it used to be. The rough part is finding the right outfits, acting properly, and to be your charming self. Here are some tips for having a successful first date.
Choosing the Right Place
I’m not quite sure if there is such thing as the right place for the first date. Everyone has different styles and preferences, so embrace it. Chose a place that you will feel comfortable and I recommend avoiding movies or clubs. Music can get pretty loud in the club and it will definitely be hard to communicate. In addition, it might be a little awkward to dance with someone you want to get to know first.
The reason movies are not a good idea for a first date:
•You guys would be skipping the part of where you ask what’s your favorite movie and might end up watching something neither of you likes.
•Most importantly movies aren’t shorter than an hour and a half. You guys are defeating the purpose of a first date: COMMUNICATION and getting to know each other. You might want to consider this for a second date.
Here are some ideas you can choose from:
Putting together the food, making food for a picnic, and enjoying the outdoors gives you or your date a chance to be creative. It shows complete interest and you will be able to control more aspects of the date.
If you are into the outdoors and having a blast with your inner child this is the right date for you. It will bring out your personality and definitely find out if your date matches yours. Plus if gives you plenty of time to chat through the day and even catch a bite together. Just be aware that certain amusement parts obligate you and your date to spend a certain amount of time together. Safer bets for amusement parks are Zoos or places that you can be in and out within a reasonable timeframe.
I like to call this the safe place. It’s always a nice and quiet place plus everyone loves coffee or tea. It is also inexpensive so it’s a good choice if you’re on a budget and want to keep things simple.
If you are not a shy person and don’t mind at all having your date watching you eat, then this is a nice place to have the first date. This will expose you to have a face to face conversation in a comfortable way and it will allow you to make eye contact easily. Most importantly you will get to know each other through communication, conveying body language, and observing food preferences. Maybe it will be a make or break with the wine decision, but its worth the shot. Cheers!
Outfits play a very important role when making first impressions. We all know what they say about first impressions and we always want to leave a good one. You don’t have to be extreme about your outfit. Do not dress up super conservative or extra sexy. Be yourself, use your style and adjust it to the occasion. If you are out for a picnic, park, or coffee type of date then do a nice casual outfit appropriate for the weather. If you decide to have dinner or coffee at night, a cocktail dress or a semi-formal outfit will be perfect.
Avoid showing too much skin as it may not give a very nice first impression on who you really are.
Ladies if you can’t handle high heels please don’t go for it. Be yourself and show your own style. Remember you need to feel comfortable in order to help with first impressions.
Do Not Pull Out Your Phone
Unless you are reaching out for help don’t do it!
Trust me its a total turn off when you are meeting with someone and the person is so distracted using their phone. It can also be really disrespectful if you do it in the middle of a conversation.
- Taking selfies
- Checking social media accounts
- Taking photos of your food, coffee, or environment
- Texting constantly
Leave the cell phone aside, enjoy the moment!
It is very nice to open a bottle of wine, sip some nice drinks or beers, even pop a bottle of champagne. On the first date, alcohol may make things more comfortable by bringing you at ease. But everything has a limit in life and alcohol is not the exception. If you are having a date I’m assuming that you should know by now how much alcohol your body can handle. We all know that alcohol can make you go crazy on so many levels so keep it nice and classy. Avoid getting tipsy or drunk, remember what I said about first impressions. So if you are having issues with loosening up, trust me alcohol is not your solution. Keep it moderation and stay classy.
Avoid Talking About Certain Topics
First dates are all about talking, getting to know each other, and enjoying each others company. Sometimes it’s hard to keep it flowing and we tend to start some random conversation just to fill the gap. It is totally normal to have awkward silence or conversation every now and then. Regardless of how awkward the conversations get avoid creating debates. Topics such as religion and politics are to be avoided at all costs. This always leads to sharing strong opinions that you guys might not even agree with.
The Ultimate First Date Conversation Rules:
Never talk about your ex
Good or bad things about your ex should never be part of a conversation on your first date or any date. Your past should be no one’s business. It would imply that you are not over it or that you like to talk about your personal life with anyone. Either way, you are not getting a good reaction.
Keep it to yourself
Never ever talk about a one night stand. Not only you are giving your date a reason to wonder about you, they will also wonder about if the date is even worth it. They are spending time and most likely money on you, and there you are talking about someone that had it super easy with you. This is for you to keep it to yourself and only yourself.
Follow these tips and enjoy your date. Remember to be yourself and accept only what feels right.
If you want to share any story about your first dates please leave us a message we are more than happy to read and share it.
Oral sex by itself is glorious and delicious but combining oral sex positions, exciting places, and toys will bump it to the next level. This practice is more than contact with mouth and genitalia is more like art. To create good art you must be a perfectionist and an oral sex lover. Being able to turn your partner on and give some pleasure and most important being able to master it, is the best feeling ever. Understanding that this is a practice of trust and fun is the first step. As I always suggest consensual and safe sex is a must.
Usually, oral sex is the doorway for intercourse and most people don’t appreciate it, making it a short and simple act. Boring! It should be as pleasant and satisfying as intercourse. To make it more attractive and fun you should get creative, get into some good sexy positions, add toys and do it in “prohibit places”.
69 Overrated ?
As I was trying to do some extra research on sex position surprisingly I did not find much information or suggestion for the famous 69 sex position. So I started wondering if my boyfriend is the last guy on earth that loves 69. It’s funny because as I did my search I found so much hate out there I guess I’m not alone.
Here is an image I found on girls ask guys
I definitely think it’s a little uncomfortable if I’m on top and it takes so much effort to keep myself turned on. My arms get tired plus I feel like I need both hands to show off my skills. If I’m on the bottom it’s a little hard to reach the full package and guess who’s not getting full pleasure? Yup the guy that loves 69 more than brunch, and that’s a lot.
He just claims that its a total turn on to give and receive pleasure at the same time. He’s right but I do not mind taking turns sorry 69 but this has to change. There are so many positions out there that will blow your mind and hopefully my boyfriends too.
So you can probably suspect by now that my inspiration for this blog has nothing to do with my frustration with 69 (my sarcastic tone).
It’s a sex position where both are facing each other at opposite ends creating access and clear view of each other’s genital areas.
Giving mutual masturbation and mutual oral sex is what makes this sex position so famous.
Mind-blowing Oral Sex Positions
All images and videos are extracted from sex info 101. They have an awesome blog about oral sex positions, check it out!
Let’s take 69 to a new level
Here are some alternative for the famous 69
• 69 Sideways
This is a small twist for the 69 but it definitely looks more comfortable, no one has to worry about gravity.
• 69 Kneeling Or Standing
Guys put those muscles to work and ladies grab on tight. Note that if your balance and resistance is not the best, practice position first before trying to perform oral sex. If this is A first time I recommend you try kneeling first and as you master it do the standing.
This one also requires some balance. This can definitely be very exciting if an effort is put into it.
The Throat Swab
Ladies and gentlemen you are going to love this one. It’s very easy and ladies your hands are free, you decide what you want to do with them give him some extra love or touch yourself meanwhile. Doing both at the same time is the goal to maximize this great position.
I must admit this is not a position for everyone. If you are not into the yoga type of positions you can keep on scrolling down, I won’t judge. I Think this is a perfect position if you are into yoga and super flexible. Make your foreplay part of your spiritual life. Now that is a sex life goal.
The Butler or Doggie goes oral
Ladies lean forward and enjoy the butler ride. Guys you can’t ask for a better perfect view. You can use one hand to grab onto her and use your other hand to help yourself. Now ladies if trying to maintain balance is a little difficult go on all fours. Doggie goes oral is basically the same position but less effort is put into your balance.
Riding in The North
My favorite position ever. Now, ladies, this is all about you here ride it however you prefer. Going at your own speed, at your own rhythm is just glorious. I call it the freeway. Guys don’t feel left out your mouth plays an important role here so keep it up.
This is a little bit more traditional cunnilingus position but it never fails to get the job done. It also allows some free movements on your hips sou you can help him hit the right spot.
On your mark, stretch, go! This is pretty awesome one, it’s all you can eat. Perfect views if you are doing your daily stretching.
What can I say, sex intends to keep us healthy. This is probably the ultimate 69 upgrade. Remember you should try new thing only if you guys are feeling comfortable. I’m sure that if this is not your favorite you will find one here if you haven’t already.
We can definitely get very creative with this traditional fellatio position. Twist it to the sides, make him sit a little bit up and use hands and other parts of the body like your breast to add more sensations.
The usual to go, please. Yes, take it on the go or very exciting places.
Get Out of the Bed
Accept the challenge of chasing excitement, spontaneity, and adrenalin in a moment of pleasure. Be the one in the relationship to surprise your partner with free spirit oral sex.
There is nothing more exciting and breathtaking that receiving oral sex in places and moments that are not expected.
Ladies, tag your it. It’s way easier to perform oral sex on a man in a car so manifest the pleasure. Make sure it’s a street with low traffic or maybe on the highway where cars are speeding, my preference is at night since the daylight makes it more obvious but if that excites you go for it.
His Or Your Parents House
If you guys are doing a family visit and have the chance to be alone for a few seconds go down. A very exciting time is when everyone is dining. Send a text to meet in the bathroom it doesn’t have to be a long escape is just a quick heart rate raise.
If you guys are camping or in a quite park go in between the bushes this is going to be really fun and exciting. Watch out for police and mosquitos :p
Give your partner a random visit to their office, make sure to lock the door and pull those pants down you guys might end up in a quickie
Patio or balcony
You don’t have to go too far, your balcony or patio is a perfect place to loosen up a little to the idea of random places. If you have a transit view it’s best that you do it at night with lights off.
Spicing It Up With Toys
Toys are always a plus when it comes to sex and excitement. Sometimes is hard to approach your partner with them at the right time. But there is no better time than oral sex.
Here is a list of perfect toys to include into your oral sex moments
Vibrating Gold Egg
Fresh by Leaf
Ida by LeLo
Share Your Story
Don’t be shy share an anecdote of your favorite position, toys, and places. Tell us where and how you like to practice oral sex. You can be the inspiration for my next blog, I’m so excited to read and share your story with all of these sexually open souls. Remember you can always call us, email us or publish it on a comment.
Adults need some fun with toys too
Sex toys are objects or devices that are primarily used to facilitate sexual pleasure. It’s important to keep your the sexual life interesting, it is an important part of any relationship. Sex is one of the most complicated physiological needs. Far from eating or sleeping, that in most of the cases the efforts are minimum; you need it, it’s accomplished and then you get over with it. If sex were that easy maybe we would be happier or maybe it wouldn’t be as fun and exciting as we try to make it constantly. And if that is not your case you are reading the perfect blog to help you spice it up.
Yes, sex should always be fun regardless how romantic or traditional it is. Sex toys are always a reliable source that never fails. For some is a quick jump of faith, for others it takes a little bit of time and that is totally okay. Not every relationship grows at the same pace and they all have different tastes and styles. So, we created a general guide to lead you to the right path of introducing sex toys into your relationship.
Someone Has To Break The Ice…
Communication is a very important tool for every relationship especially when it comes to sex . Breaking the ice and talk about sexual improvement is not a gender thing at all, it’s about who is ready first and as I stated before not every relationship flows at the same pace. So if you are ready to break the ice remember there is no such thing as a right time but you’ll have to consider a couple of things first.
In order to develop confidence in your relationship, you’ll have to know your partner and vice versa. I am not saying that this is a universal rule, but the more you guys know each other the more likely you are to feel comfortable and open to introduce new things.
It’s really important that you are not suggesting to introduce sex toys because you are fully unsatisfied with your sex life. Don’t get me wrong, sex toys make intimacy moments more dynamic and will spice things up. But it is vital to have a healthy sexual life before. Our goal is that you make the best out of this choice. We wouldn’t want any one’s feelings to get hurt by making them feel unwanted or that they are being replaced.
If you feel that your relationship needs an extra help, don’t hesitate in asking for some. Contact us or reach out to a reliable source.
Strategies to Approach the Idea
Just as any other situation in life, this approach does not come with instruction. We won’t give you instructions or tell you exactly what to do to get that extra fun in bed. But we are more than happy to guide you with some methods that would ease the moment.
Do some research…
So you won’t have to fear the unknown or search for someone that has already done some research, reviews and has pointed out some benefits. Check out my blog : Sex Boutique By Oral Sex Academy. You’re welcome!
If you can’t say it, write it
Send an email or text message linking your favorite products and reviews, ask your partner for some feedback. This is going to allow you guys to engage a normal discussion, letting a not so easy topic flow smoother. When you are reflecting a confidence vibe and projecting that you know what you want, that will make your partner more interested. They will thank you really soon.
Reassure Your Partner
Tell your significant other what you love about them. Also, communicate what you should continue doing and what should be destitute for new things. Talk about what can be improved too, and remember that this is not a way to escape from “bad sex” , sex toys should be introduced to enhance the sex life, not to create a conflict about it. Let’s not forget that they don’t substitute emotional closeness that is shared when you guys are sexually intimate
Still Not Ready ?
No problem, it requires persistence and consistency in most cases. Do not pressure your partner into doing something they are not ready to do. If this is something that you really want and your partner needs some time, there is hope. You just need to be patient.
Use other products…
Include other things first instead, this might lead you to the happy ending. You can introduce other sexy products that are not as intimidated. Start off with Somebody oil for a great foreplay massage. A tasty flavored lubricant to spice the oral sex is always a good option. Or some naughty candies, like gummy panties or undies. Trust me, there is a big variety of products to choose from and they would leave you and your partner wanting more.
A naughty gift never fails
Gifts are always exciting especially when they are naughty. Whoever said diamonds are girls best friend never tried a vibrator or a dildo before. Now that is a good friend, it makes our solo time easier and fun. So if you are trying to convince your lady, go for it, buy her a toy so she can enjoy it on her solo time. Don’t worry about feeling left out I promise she will feel more comfortable and open up faster. She would want to share that fun sexy time with you. Also consider toys that would be good for dual dynamic, its a plus for you. And if you are a determent soul trying to convince your man there is also toys for him, this strategy won’t fail you either. Masturbators, pumps, cock rings, they are many options for you to choose from too, give it a try.
Mission accomplished ? So you guys decided to introduce sex toys into your relationship, it’s crucial that you shop for sex toys together. Unless you are a 100% sure what you guys want and it’s going to be a surprise. Choose a comfortable place to shop at I would suggest that the most convenient thing to do is shop online. It gives you the option to browse around a couple of stores, read reviews and compare prices . All that at the comfort of your house. I invite you guys to visit Oral Sex Academy Boutique. It will be so much fun. A very nice dynamic for couples when shopping for sex toys is to build their own wish list. You would be surprised how much you would learn from your partner’s sensuality.
Sex toys are more than Dildos and vibrators. There are so many other categories like the nipple, penile toys, anal penetrable, clitoral vibrators and many others. There are female, male and dual toys, many colors and shape for the diversity of couples. It is almost as if there was one for each human been. We are all different in consequence there are so many distinct styles, category, and shape for different sexually opened body. Explore, learn and live.
Remember always to practice safe and consensual sex.
If your partner may not seem ready don’t push it. It’s important that both feel comfortable so can both enjoy it.
Let’s Talk About Sex, Baby! The Dos & Don’ts of Effective Sexual Communication
Most people know that one of the best ways to have a great sexual relationship with their partner is the ability to communicate sexual needs and wants with him or her. However, for many that sounds great, but they do not know how to make that happen. The experts in oral sex education at Oral Sex Academy offer some tips for couples looking to effectively convey their sexual desires in and outside of the bedroom.
Do Let Your Partner Know When it Feels Good in a Physical Way
In a 2012 study done by The Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, nonverbal communication helps bridge the gap between sexual self-esteem and satisfaction in ways that verbal communication cannot. Why is this? Because, frankly, telling your partner it just isn’t working can put quite a damper on a fun romp in between the sheets. If you require more pressure, pull your partner’s hands down harder. If your partner is doing something that is working, then moan to let him or her know. Shouting “Good job, buddy!” can be a little jarring. However, don’t be afraid to let your partner know when it is working and when it isn’t. No one likes to waste their time, even while having sex.
Don’t Ask if He or She Came Yet
In a perfect world, sex ends with both partners having that wonderful orgasm at the same time. We can thank the movies for that fallacy! While an orgasm is a wonderful thing, reducing the whole act of sex as only being successful if ending with the big O adds pressure to what should be a fun and pleasurable experience. Even worse? Asking him or her if they are close to having an orgasm when it is sometimes difficult to achieve one. So, stop asking about the orgasm! While nice, it is not the endgame for a successful sexual experience.
Do Let Your Hands Guide the Way
Oh, the power that hands yield. One of the most effective ways to show your partner the best way to do something is to place your hand on the back of his or hers to work that magic. You can show him or her how hard or soft you like it there or how fast or slow. Also, don’t be afraid to ask your partner to show you what he is she prefers. You may be surprised that you have been “doing it wrong.”
Don’t Say “Yuck” or “That is Gross”
When a couple truly opens up and allows their partner to hear their sexual fantasies, sometimes those fantasies can be, oh how to say it…WEIRD! Revealing one’s innermost sexual fantasies can be terrifying, and hearing a partner’s response that what they are listening to is gross or strange is a great way to shut down communication. How about telling your partner that you are not comfortable performing that, but then offering an alternative you are comfortable with? Also, if your partner is doing something to you before or while having sex that you don’t like, like shoving his or her tongue in and out of your ear, don’t yell “DISGUSTING!” Instead, move your lover’s tongue to where you’d prefer it to be.
Do Talk Dirty
Dirty talk with a partner causes many to feel nervous for a variety of reasons, such as fearing they will sound silly. Some may have no idea what to say, or they are afraid that talking dirty means sounding like a porn star. However, you don’t have to settle for quiet sex! If talking dirty is a big step for you, then start small, such as telling your partner how good it feels when he or she does a certain something and build from there as your confidence grows. And while quiet sex isn’t necessarily a bad thing, dirty talk can be a potent device. It can help you and your partner stay in the moment and develop your communication skills even further, all the while helping you both stay even more turned on.
Don’t Feel Bad About Saying “No”
So, you and your partner are on that fun road of communicating sexually, sharing needs, wants, and fantasies. When couples are able to truly open up, there may be some things you hear that you just do not want to do. Saying “no” is perfectly acceptable. Just because one partner got to that “no holds barred” place doesn’t mean the other has to fulfill a certain desire. You should ALWAYS feel comfortable telling your partner no. End of discussion. However, remember our earlier advice to not act like what you hear is disgusting!
Do Remain Present
Outside of the bedroom, if your partner starts opening up about his or her sexual desires and wants, put away the phone and other distractions, and LISTEN! Your partner needs to feel comfortable sharing such personal information, and if he or she sees you checking your phone or constantly looking at the TV, that is the best way to shut down the two-way street of communication and sexual activity.
Staying present also involves not putting your partner on the defensive, and that starts with knowing how to word sentences. Be sure to start sentences with “I.” Don’t say “You don’t know how to make me have an orgasm.” Instead, say “I sometimes have a hard time having an orgasm, and I think that spending more time on oral sex would help me get there.”
In the bedroom, if your partner feels as though you are distracted and constantly looking at the clock, he or she could feel rushed, which is a great mood killer. If you cannot take your time, then get what you need to get done, and rock his or her world later.
Don’t Forget Sex is Fun
At the end of the day, sex needs to be viewed not as a chore but as something fun to do with your partner. Study after study proves that sexual communication absolutely enhances sexual satisfaction between lovers. If sex starts to feel as monotonous as dusting the house, then it is time to open up those lines of communication with your partner!
The sex experts at Oral Sex Academy understand the importance of a healthy sex life to a couple’s longevity. Feel free to browse our blogs for even more sex tips, or look into our line of oral sex education videos to really help spice up your sex life. The happy couple is the proactive couple!
7 Incredible Dating Tips For Women
Quality dating tips for women are hard to come across sometimes. Many women don’t realize that there are some secrets to dating that will definitely increase their chances at having a quality experience and to improve their chances for a second date.
Having a great outlook on life is crucial. Nobody wants to be with a downer. Being confident and showing that you are comfortable with yourself is extremely attractive to men. Show them that you have goals over the next 5 years of your life. Let them know you have quality ideas of how your time on Earth should be spent. Being positive is inspiring and will always be a quality attribute that people are looking for.
Be Open Minded
Don’t just assume that your date is going to take you to the most expensive restaurant. Maybe he is going to show you his favorite “hole in the wall”. Don’t be so quick to judge the experience before you allow yourself to have fun with it. He might be just testing you to see how you would react and to see if you are willing to let loose.
Part of the point of dating is to meet new people and to get to know that person. So whether you are meeting someone online or are being set up by your friends don’t fish for details about that person until you actually meet them, you might be shooting yourself in the foot. You don’t want to go out on a date with a predisposition about the other person. Allow the moment to happen on it’s own and be true to yourself in the process.
Always Leave Your Baggage At The Door
Don’t talk about your exes or compare them to the new guy on a first date. It’s a genuine turn off to all men to hear the name of your past experiences. You end up sending out a message that you are not totally over the other person when they are brought into the conversation. Most of the time men will ultimately decide to move on and find somebody else if they think you are still emotionally attached to your prior relationships.
Being yourself is the best way to ensure that the guy is meeting you and not your representative. Don’t give false impressions because if you want any relationship to have a chance at success then it is important that they are getting to know the real you and not some fantasy, super amazing, unrealistic version of yourself. If the relationship continues to blossom then it is only a matter of time before they start to see who you really are so why play games that usually only end up in disappointment. Also be direct and don’t assume that men always understand hidden messages. Men generally don’t read between the lines very well so be specific and clear to avoid any unnecessary stress for yourself.
The only way you’re going to get to know someone is if you ask them questions about who they are and how they think. Don’t let them do all of the talking though. The conversation ideally should be mutual and should involve both parties equally. And if you are someone who loves to talk, don’t spend the whole time talking about yourself because that is almost always a turnoff for anybody. Make sure you are showing some interest in finding out more about the other person.
Don’t Be Catty
Nothing says “You don’t want to be with me!” more than when you are out on a first date making your first impression and you decide to start putting other females down around you. “I can’t believe she thinks that nobody would notice that her purse is a knock off!” or “Didn’t somebody tell her to look in the mirror before she went out in public today?” Nobody likes to be around someone who thinks that they are better than everybody else. It’s one thing to be confident and maybe even a little bit arrogant, but to just judge other people because maybe you don’t agree with their fashion choice is a total red flag. Being humble is a virtue that most people look for in others. Be uplifting, it’s not about bringing others down.
Meeting new people usually falls somewhere between awkward and extremely awkward. Anything you can do to minimize the awkwardness and move towards amazing is a step in the right direction and possibly another date.
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Most men are closed minded to the idea of experimenting with the prostate gland for excitement. For sooooo many, the idea of stimulating this particular organ is off limits, it is not even a topic for discussion. Simply enough, it is considered a forbidden zone.
Most heterosexual man have issues with the use of the prostate for fear of being considered homosexual. However, men who have no such barriers are more adventurous and will not have any existential conflict. These are the kind of men who might truly get to experience an orgasm like no other.
How to get your man to be comfortable with his prostate being explored.
A first timer should get to know the area and the feelings associated with a self-examination in the bathroom. It is recommended to move slowly and carefully. Use plenty of lubricant for this area. Nobody should ever force penetration into the anus because it can cause severe tearing. Take into consideration that the anus should be completely relaxed. Once the area is ready, carefully massage inside the anus and find the prostate gland. Explore the different sensations that can be created. Allow your partner to get comfortable with themselves first and then they will be ready to share with you.
Now it’s your turn. Gradually prepare your partner’s area before penetration. First, you have to stimulate the anus with circular movements on the outside. Do not immediately introduce the finger. When the anus has relaxed and expanded by stimulation then you can introduce penetration. It is recommended to use a condom on your finger. Once your partner has become relaxed with you inside of them you can start to introduce oral sexual stimulation simultaneously. These are two of the most sensitive and erogenous zones your partner possesses. What a thrill!
Another way to stimulate the area is through a technique known as a “rim job” or “black kiss”.
Stimulate the anus by passing the tongue and lips over the area. Keep in mind that any penetration should only happen after previous excitation to relax the anus.
“Why would I want to stimulate his prostate?”
Simple really, the prostate produces the majority of the liquid found in ejaculation. With just the right amount of stimulation from touch, ejaculation can be generated without even touching the penis.
The anus is an area with multiple nerve endings and is highly sensitive to touch. As a result, those who have experienced proper stimulation of the prostate mention the pleasure of reaching multiple orgasms.
A man must take away the prejudices that he may have about this subject and explore his body. Men will have to allow their partner to explore it with them, but if it becomes too difficult and they become embarrassed or experience feelings of guilt then nobody is going to enjoy sex. At this point, just put it all aside and don’t worry because there are many other areas that can erupt your erogenous zones. Remember, the idea is never to force someone to do something that makes them feel uncomfortable. However, exploring these zones never eliminates or diminishes their manhood.
At www.oralsexacademy.com we address and educate on these issues. We definitely provide you with some tips to try in order to free your partner so they feel comfortable in exploring the possibilities.
Be a Tigress! Believe it or not, men love women who surprise them. Men admire a woman who can be so versatile that she can transform from a lady in public to a sexy, passionate Tigress in private.
Being a lady has nothing to do with casting aside her carnal instinct that can be carried away by a moment of passion or desire. In fact, even in unconventional places, if only for a moment, her inner Tigress can show. She can be daring, but discrete. For example ladies, in your daily office meetings you can simply pass your hand over his erogenous zone. Fake a small slip allowing each other to touch without anyone noticing. That’s being bold.
When making sexual fantasies come true the difference lies in the willingness factor. You don’t have to do a lot, but if you do it with disgust it won’t be pleasant. A man wants to feel that blending to demonstrate security in doing it. In a few words, he wants a woman who enjoys it as much as him.
When we talk about what men expect or if they use the phrase “I want you to let loose in bed!”, what they are begging for is:
- A woman who takes the initiative. Do not allow him to always be the only one who initiates contact.
- Someone who shows security and control of what she does in bed.
- A person that wants to try new positions. One who tries to incorporate toys or just play around with him.
- One who wears provocative lingerie and seduces him, not only just wearing it, but also incorporating other details. An erotic dance, a striptease, etc… The difference is in how she wears it.
- A partner who enjoys the moment and he can see it in her gestures, moans, positions, and that is something that will always stimulate him further.
- A woman who lets go of the embarrassment and puts her shyness aside. These are not the moments to show off her insecurities.
- Someone to be daring, take the torch and run with it, all men are waiting to see what women will do to surprise them.
Being a lady involves a number of qualities that are not solely related to appearance. It’s more about attitude and how she portrays it day by day.
- A lady is the epitome of grace and femininity. She draws stares and demands respect. She is admired by other women who want to be like her.
- A lady does not care about others’ behavior, she focuses on her performance given the circumstances. She does not make her partner feel inferior in public.
- She is never afraid to ask for help in tasks that require some masculinity, even if she can do it by herself. Of course she always remembers not to take it too far because men, unfortunately, will get tired of a woman who does nothing.
- A lady knows what is happening around her, she keeps up with the current events in the world.
- She is always glamorous and we’re not talking about always dressing up elegant, but rather that she just takes care of the little details (clothes, hair, and makeup).
- Bad words and rude gestures are never necessary since there are so many other ways to express what she feels.
- Flirting is a part of every woman, but a lady knows the limits and respects her partner. She presents him in public, giving him his stature before other men and driving away insecurities.
- A lady is smart and astute. She always has the right words of encouragement for others.
- Her manners will never fail. She always knows how to treat each person with courtesy and respect.
A woman is a combined set of qualities, like the two sides of a coin. She maintains pleasure and full enjoyment with her partner in bed as well as in public. Men want a bold and daring woman behind closed doors. Sign in to www.oralsexacademy.com and learn how to benefit from your Tigress charms in the bedroom. You will have your partner eating out of the palm of your hand and begging for more.
Proper oral sex techniques are some of the fundamental building blocks of a complete sexual experience.
Many people feel that the oral sex techniques they’re already familiar with are more than enough to maintain a strong sexual relationship. As with anything in life, the more knowledge one possesses, the more powerful one becomes. This article will broaden your understanding of how to make your partner moan and scream with pleasure.
Oral Sex on a Female
The oral sex techniques involved in pleasing a woman lies in the application of the tongue, lips, and even a finger or two. An effective tongue will definitely take your female partner for one hell of a ride. The best orgasms for a woman come with the help of fellatio. Women can orgasm from internal and external stimulation. Both of which have different results. In other words, stimulating the clitoris and stimulating the vulva will have different effects on a woman. Keep in mind, many women will not feel completely satisfied until they have experienced both types of orgasms in a single sexual encounter. Our advice to you, make good use of contrast to create an unforgettable experience. Giving her a mixture of different degrees of stimulation will create multiple orgasms and ultimately deliver her to a higher level of satisfaction. Here are some ideas to take into consideration.
Variations of pressure will have different results in her body’s reactions. Very light pressure, or teasing, will get things started and begin to “warm up the oven” so to speak. But if you only maintain that light pressure, chances are it will take a lot of work to get her to climax. Increase the pressure applied to both the clitoris and the labia throughout the experience to build her up to an explosive state.
Temperature can play a major role in achieving an orgasm for females. For example, the use of warming lubricants can definitely heat things up for her. More blood flow equals more chances of giving her an orgasm.
Remember that women can orgasm in multiple ways. As we mentioned before, they have internal and external orgasms. When she begins to loosen up and relax in the moment, try inserting a finger into her vagina. Continue stimulating her clitoris with your tongue while you massage her inside. Now get ready for the fireworks. You will have her writhing in pleasure.
Make use of different levels of speed. Rubbing her clitoris with your fingers or tongue is a great way to bring her to an orgasm. You can further enhance that pleasure by alternating different speeds. Try different variations of slow to fast or fast to slow to experiment on your partner. Various applications will obtain various results.
Last but not the least, you can alter the vibe or nature of your rubbing. You should alternate between “harder, harder, faster, faster” to a nice, passionate, and controlled pace. It is imperative to pay attention to where your partner is in the moment. This will be the decider of what you should do next. If it too intense, slow it down. If your actions are not intense enough, then you need to increase velocity of your performance. Keep her guessing and keep it hot. The element of surprise plays a great role in a quality orgasm.
Oral sex on a man
Oral Sex Techniques are applied differently for men. However, the main idea and the focus is the same. The objective is to attain better usage of the mouth in order to convey greater amounts of pleasure to your partner. Here are some tips that you can follow:
Multitasking is an important part of all oral sex techniques. Whether it be for men or women. As far as pleasing a man is concerned, your oral fixation will be busy with the penis. Introduce a hand or two around the trunk or “shaft” and begin to stroke in unison with your oral movements. Watch him begin to move around with excitement. In addition, if your partner is willing, try massaging his scrotum. If he is completely open and willing, gently massage his anus and eventually move in for the prostate. He will melt like butter in the most toe curling, orgasmic experience he can imagine.
Performing oral sex on a man doesn’t necessarily mean you have to only suck on the penis. Move around to the other parts as well. In addition, move your lips to the base and slowly proceed towards the tip. You can tongue tease his scrotum. Gently insert his testicles into your mouth. Tease him for awhile. Build him up to the point of explosive ecstasy.
The length of oral sex matters a great deal when it comes to pleasing your man and giving him the best orgasm of his life. Make sure the performance is neither too long nor too short. When he is ready to climax, support his testicles with your hand and push them gently towards his body. It enhances the orgasm beyond the normal experience. As a result, you are now creating sensations that he will never forget.
In conclusion, here at The Oral Sex Academy, we are always delivering more and more oral sex techniques to you. Remember, our focus is in pleasing your partner. It does not matter if you are a man or a woman. Bringing new experience and pleasure to the bedroom is our goal. Login to www.oralsexacademy.com today for our latest and greatest tutorials for a better sex life.
Oral Sex Taboos
Throughout the years, women have always lived with taboos related to sex, culture, age, and even socioeconomic status. Many of these topics have become so taboo that people are afraid to talk about it in public. And those who do, create a stigma around them that doesn’t necessarily have to do with their values. This really is a subject that should be talked about. It’s related to our body and what we experience with our partners in private. So we invite you to talk about sex in a natural way with your partner, your family, or your friends. Leave aside your shame because there is no logical reason to keep sex a secret. Without sex there would be no human race, so in essence, everybody does it. You are not alone!
When we talk about sexuality, there are several ways to satisfy a sexually active man. And one of those ways is through oral sex.
For many people it is a topic that is an open discussion and for many others it is just awkward and uncomfortable. However, it all depends on the rapport we have with our confidants. The idea behind being sexual is achieving satisfaction and pleasure for both. A little of what are we going to discuss is that oral sex is more than just sucking a penis. It is an art that we can compare with making love, painting a beautiful landscape, or enjoying a delicious meal. The experience floods our senses. Quality sexual encounters can take us out of this world for a moment and make us see the stars. Sex can send our whole body into trembles and quivers from sensory overload.
Oral sex is a whole experience by itself depending on how it is performed. It involves new factors and your other senses will be awaken. Can you imagine being able to perform it so that you satisfy your partner not only at that moment, but also keep him thinking of you? You can do that, it doesn’t matter if it’s the first time or not. Just remember, every time you do it can be a whole new experience for both, and there is always a new secret to learn in the art of seduction when it comes to sex.
Don’t hesitate, seek to satisfy your concerns, overcome your fears and fully enjoy sex with your partner. Start by making a list of those questions that you may have like: “How can I touch it?”,”How do I start?”, “How long do I have to do it for?”, “Would you like it if I take the initiative?”. All of this is important without taking for granted what you like or dislike, remember it has to be a balance between you both. Otherwise you won’t reach your target which is complete sexual satisfaction for you and your partner.
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