Remember the clueless man that had to go through the experience of hearing women thoughts 24/4? Just so he can get a clue of what they really wanted. Yes, the 2000 film What Women Wants. This blog is basically a free pass for the heterosexual male who feel or have felt clueless at some point of a relationship with women. And even for those who can swear they now their lady but would like to add more knowledge in their experience.
Communication is key, it’s not always about what we reflect, or our corporal language. In my case, my boyfriend always reminds me that I wear my feeling on my sleeve what makes it a little easier for me to communicate what I want without actually saying it. But that is just an exception a really rare one.
Dominate The Moment: We all like that, Most of the Time.
Guys if your lady is not being very clear with what she want’s make sure to ask it’s always nice to ask instead of assuming. You know what they say about assuming (never ass-u-me it makes an ASS of U and ME)
If by any chance a lady out there is reading this please please please, never be afraid to ask exactly what you want. You’ll be surprised how much convenient it is. Going back to those gentlemen out there, Take control f you are the one requesting sexy time!
1. Eye Contact
First comes first you need to want this if you do, prove it’s that easy. Make sure to make eye contact when you are either telling her what you want or showing her. It’s about reflecting that urge and desire so you can transmit the right intention as soon as possible. The turn-on point happens fast, therefore, you must act fast.
Make your second move quick, Foreplay.
2. Our President Was Somewhat Right (Wrong Women Thought!)
Remember that inspiring quote from our lovely president, Trump: “Grab them by the pussy”. Well, coming out of that awful situation sounds horrible I know. But every woman likes to be surprised by THERE MAN hands in their cherry, it’s one of my favorite ways to get turn on in a second. Please evaluate the moment before jumping to the conclusion that it’s perfectly fine to do it. Don’t be like Trump, please!
3. Tell Her What You Want
Here, there, do this, slow, fast, hard, or soft demand it!! Talk about a perfect trade if you say what you want only then you can guarantee that she will tell you exactly what she wants. Communication is key for a consensually pleasured moment.
4. Be Expressive
Based on an honest and proper feedback you can continue receiving pleasure like you always dreamed of. Women are blessed in many ways but we cannot read minds, YET. If you like her hard work tell her, communicating how thing makes you feel opens a door of trust and comfortable sexy time. We like to know that we are doing a great job and not feel self conscience about telling our man how we like it too.
5. Be spontaneous
As adults sometimes life makes it hard to incorporate sexy time in your daily routine and that is totally normal. For some couple, it’s perfectly fine to schedule it and for some, it’s just a little too hard to assume sex in a routine. But when time limits your creativity go creative with how or what you introduce in the moment.
Sex toys are a reliable source when it comes to making sex more fun and pleasant. Make sure you both are comfortable and go for it Usually Cock rings, male masturbators and bullets are more convenient for couples.
Role play and Sex Positions
If role play is your thing go for it, plan it and if you’re feeling it you can dress up to make more real and fun the moment. It’s a perfect moment to be whatever you want. It’s important that you both feel comfortable and agree to certain rules incorporated.
Trying new sex positions or changing them every time you have sex is essential to fight with that routine feeling if that’s the case. If you are feeling adventurous there is no need to have sex in the same position over and over again. Spice it up plus only this way you can play smoothly with who wants to be in control.
Lubricants, Candle, and Enhancers
You would be surprised how may things are out there to help you make sex more fun. Edible massage candles are perfect for romantic nights. this is one of my favorites I mean who hates to get a massage right before sex?
There’s a big variety of lubes and enhancers to choose from since not everyone is into the same things. It’s like shopping for candy literally!! You can choose flavors and based (I always recommend water based). You can also look for different type of performance, oral sex, intercourse and anal. Enhancers are always a plus for both women and men.
Have you ever thought about yourself as being heartless for simply not enjoying the typical romantic movie? You are not alone and I’m beyond tired of the traditional storyline that Hollywood has to offer. What can I say, It simply bores me with unrealistic happy endings. I promise you I’ve heard better storytelling from heartbroken people sitting in a subway and sometimes an unfortunate reality warms my heart. With that said let me suggest different love stories to those for those heartless romantics like me.
Some of these films are categorized as independent drama and some are foreign productions, but they all have a hint of uniqueness and perfection for people looking for alternative love films.
1.Eternal Sunshine Of A Spotless Mind
This will blow your mind in so many ways starting with the fact that Jim Carry doesn’t play a funny character. His performance in this romantic sci-fi movie paired with his chemistry with Kate Winslet will bring you head over heels.
This reverse love story would make you travel from the end to the beginning with a “what if ” point of view. For those who are into psychology, the incorporation of Freud’s conscience theory in this movie is a plus.
Love finds Amelie when she starts enjoying the satisfaction of being able to practice several acts of kindness towards others in her very own interpersonal universe. Even though romance is a secondary topic in this brilliant film Amelie’s character might reflect strong characteristics of an undiagnosed psychotic which might make you fall in love with her.
The story revolves around Jamal Malik who is playing the Indian version of Who Wants to Be a Millionaire. In parallel to the questions and answers of the game show are flashbacks to how he got there. It also shows fragments of how he survived on the streets of Mumbai turning to a life of thievery after his Mother died. All these intense scenes will bring you and Jamal to the spotlight of sitting in that chair questioning if love is worth all of it.
3.Sex and Lucía
In this film, Lucia expresses love and strong emotions through sex. She decides to move to an island trying to solve some personal issues she wasn’t able in her previous relationship. Missing her boyfriend she travels in time bringing to life some memories that define her as Lucía. This sensual film would have you struggling with mixed feelings of excitement from beginning to end.
This is a twist of a typical teenage love story seen through the eyes of Alex a fifteen-year-old with both male and female sexual organs as she begins to explore her sexuality. It revolves around her liking a boy whose the son of some family friends that are visiting from Buenos Aires. Making a love story around the chaos of self/gender identity is brilliant, different, and unique.
This one begins with a heartbreak and insomnia. Ben Wills found a productive way to take advantage of his sleepless nights after his girlfriend breaks up with him. This distinctive film makes you wander between fantasy and reality when he manages to stop time and appreciate life trough his artistic eye.
6.Jeux d’enfants (Love Me if You Dare)
Just when you start to think this is a typical love story, just give this one some time. The main characters have a surprisingly sick sense of humor as they play a game that starts to develop into love. What’s left at some point of their life is to dare the best friend to love in the most psychotic way. The unexpected end that I would like to interpret as symbolic will have you loving or hating the movie.
7. 500 Days of Summer
How long can a summer be? 500 days in this post-modern love story. It shows that love isn’t always reciprocal. This is far from having a typical happy ending but will nonetheless make you smile despite the funny and sad crazy journey of an unstable relationship.
Hope you guys enjoy my twisted alternative to love movies in February. You can write a comment if you want to share your list which we are more than happy to read.
Confidence is not only how people perceive us it is also a true reflection of yourself. Confident people are constantly affecting others around them in a positive way. The secret is a healthy self-esteem, the right body language, and the perfect attitude. If you want to be more confident the secret is to work on yourself from inside out.
“The Qualities I most admire in women are confidence and kindness” -Oscar de la Renta.
Self-esteem is nothing but a judgment of oneself as well as an attitude towards yourself. As I mentioned before confidence is an inside out effort. In order to show confidence, you must feel comfortable with yourself. Here is a list of things to consider when evaluating yourself:
- Fall in love with yourself and all your imperfections, remember everyone is beautiful in many different ways.
- Don’t judge yourself for any mistakes you make. Just do your best to embrace every moment and situation.
- Work on things you love and push yourself to achieve things you can be proud of.
- Run away from negative people who bring you down. Surround yourself with people who loves you for who you are.
- Fall in love with yourself every day and tell yourself how much you LOVE YOU. Remind yourself how proud you are for every achievement!
Self-care Should Be a Priority
If you want to reflect a good attitude you must feel good with yourself. You can start by taking care of yourself and rest and relaxation is a must. Make time for the basics: eat healthy, sleep well, and treat yourself.
Reward yourself with a treat after dinner maybe through a warm bath or some physical activity.
Exercise to boost your confidence
Regular physical activity can help you feel good and confident about how you look along with understanding your body’s capabilities.
Extreme physical activity isn’t necessarily required. You can start with a simple walk, some nice yoga exercises, or cardio if it fits within your goals.
Your comfort zone is a dangerous place to be. If you want to stand out in life it is necessary that you push yourself out of your comfort zone.
This can sound intimidating or scary but if you don’t try it you would never know how exciting life can get.
In addition, as you experience new places or new goals you’ll grow more confident in your everyday life.
Eye contact can be a little intimidating or sometimes uncomfortable. As you develop confidence it becomes easier to have enthusiastic conversation while looking people in the eye. It’s important to not look away as you finish talking and to maintain eye contact throughout the course of a conversation.
~Avoid distractions such as scanning the room or looking at your phone.
Moving your hands as you talk helps you illustrate a subject and enthusiasm and excitement can reflect confidence. Talking with your hands can make you look lively as long as you remember to keep your hand movements under control.
Engage in Fronting
Always be aware of your body positions when approaching someone. Aiming your torso towards the person you are talking to can help you engage in conversation with confidence.
A Good Attitude
Avoid negative habits when talking
Avoid starting a conversation that undermines you like “I’m not sure but..” “It’s just my opinion” “I’m not an expert, but…” Starting sentences like this can reflect a lack of confidence regardless of how engaging or interesting the topic is.
Don’t use unnecessary words like “just”. This can make you look uncertain and somewhat nervous.
Never end sentences as if it were a question, never! This can come off as insecurity on what you are trying to communicate reflecting nervous behavior.
Take responsibilities for your actions
Insecurity can make you cover up mistakes and always find an excuse. Work on taking responsibility for your decisions and actions, good or bad. Mistakes do not define your life.
Embrace your imperfections
It’s all about recognizing your flaws and embracing them. Accept them as part of you and notice how good it feels. Trying to mask your imperfections can often make you feel insecure and not to mention even more stressed.
This should be rule number one! You have a personality and is unique so don’t try to be anything but yourself. Remember that the only person you need to impress is yourself.
Follow your intuition
Become more aware of your thoughts
Connect with your inner child
If you think you need some extra help with your confidence or self-esteem visit betterhelp.com for some professional counseling.
A Neutral Vaginal PH
A neutral vaginal PH balance is very important in every ladies life. It plays an important role in a women’s confidence. Also is very necessary for a perfect healthy oral sex and any sexual experience even your solo ones.
How much do you really know your vagina? I’m pretty sure you might think you know it all or nothing at all. I’m sure you would want to know how much. Despite your confidence is very important to search for new information. There are a lot of misconceptions about what you should do to maintain a healthy vagina.
Allow us to introduce you to some important things that your vagina wants to tell you:
After all, we are what we eat and so is our vagina. It’s not about limiting what you eat or going on a diet. Just make sure you include a list of beneficial food like:
It contains lactobacillus (a good bacteria) It helps your vagina stay in the optimal PH range fighting bad bacterias. You can buy the same probiotic in the yogurt in pill format ( probiotic feminine supplement)
Green Tea or Cranberry Juice
Cranberry Juice helps fight urinary tract infections. Cranberries contain compounds that stop the infection from sticking to your bladder. It is best to consume some homemade with no too much sugar and sugar is a hazard for yeast infection. Green tea with its potent antimicrobial effect could help fight UTI’s without putting in risk your vaginal PH balance.
Fish ( omega 3 )
Some nice fish in your diet or simply supplement pills. Omega 3 fatty acid it’s an anti-inflammatory that studies suggest may help with discomfort when presenting first symptoms of an unbalanced PH.
Minimally Processed Soy foods
like tofu, organic edamame, or tempeh. They are high in estrogen and also hydrophilic making them good for vaginal dryness due to low levels of estrogen so you would definitely want to put this on your list. A daily consumption of this products can help keep your tissues elastic and well lubricated by attracting more water to your tissues.
Apple Cider Vinegar
This is a strong natural antibiotic. This acid liquid it’s very helpful when you have a basic ph. It kills viruses and bacteria making good bacteria recolonize. There are many ways to include the apple cider vinegar in your diet, you can also apply directly to the vagina.
Take one spoon of apple cider vinegar and dilute in an 8oz cup of water and drink daily. You can also use this water-vinegar and apply or wipe vulva with it. Try to avoid a daily application due to the acid.
Also, try to avoid hormonal birth control this can affect your natural hormone balance affecting your vaginal flora.
Keep in mind all the food to include in your diet especially probiotic this will help to maintain a neutral PH balance fighting any possible yeast infection.
No soap! Seriously ladies you don’t need soap to clean your lady part. It is so perfect that it cleans itself. Some nice temperature water will do the job.
If you feel a little uncomfortable or you think your body smell is too strong for just water then try some simple mild soap. Avoid any crazy fragrance and avoid falling for the feminine wash. Remember that less is more, fewer ingredients the better the product.
And for the love of your chacha say no to douching!
There are actually some studies that have shown that using this type of products can put you at big risk of infections, STD’s, and pelvic inflammatory disease.
Go commando whenever you can so it can air out. The less humid the best for your PH balance.
Managing your period the correct way is crucial for a perfect vaginal PH balance. Ladies this is a once a month thing, 12 times a year sometimes more this is a part of us that we must master.
Is a must that you:
Keep it clean and fresh down there with only water or maybe some gentle soap and gentle wipes.
○Change tampons, pads or cup as often as possible avoid scented pads and tampons.
○Remember to be careful with pills
○Have safe sex if you do have sex when you have your period.
I Know for a fact that a visit to the Gynecologist can be very stressful, scary or tedious moment. This annual exam is very necessary and it’s not only about the pelvic exam. This is a good time to do an STD test, check out for general infections, talk about your birth control and any sexual or vaginal issues or concerns.
Tip: make a vaginal or sexual journal or notebook. Write down any situation, questions or concerns you have through the year. Trust me this will make your life easier that one day.
Ladies we all have’d that moment wen you’re in the mood but your vagina didn’t get the memo. No need to feel self-conscious, that is totally normal. Vaginal dryness can be caused by some medications, like antidepressants, hormonal birth control, and antibiotics. It can also crop up with menopause or after pregnancy. To avoid cuts or soreness that can lead to a yeast infection or any discomfort make sure to communicate with your partner so they won’t forge ahead without being lubricated.
Condoms are great protecting against Pregnancy and STD’s. Also, some studies have found that using a rubber when having sex can helps keep your vaginal PH level on point do good bacterias can survive in there. Especially if you are not in a monogamous relationship.
A very important note:
keep it separated, if you are using a condom for anal sex make sure to change it before going from anal to vaginal sex. If you go from back to front without cleaning properly this exposes your vagina to a host of bacteria risking a yeast infection.
I’m Hoping for a world with a better Vaginal PH balance!
An aphrodisiac is a food, drink, or drug that stimulates sexual desire. It turns you on, it gets your pants hot, it arouses you, it gets you extra extimulated or however you want to call it. After all, it boils down to hormones.
Experts say that they work in two ways those that stimulate sexual desires by affecting parts of the body and does that stimulates sexual desires by working on the mind.
For example, It can make our bodies produce chemicals associated with sexual desires. It can also increase blood flow to the sex organs that stimulates sexual feeling.
There are a lot of rumors about Caribbeans being very caliente due to the consumption them. After living in that sensual weather for years I am here to confirm any sexual stereotypes and talk a little about how exactly does it work. Maybe we can all be Caribbeans in a fantasy night. Better and more exciting sex, who doesn’t want that?
My grandmother used to say:
“You always have to keep men happy with food and sex”. I actually grew up thinking that this was such a sexist comment. Well maybe because I knew she did it all to satisfy my grandpa and not herself. But thinking outside of that sexist box where my grandma grew up, food and sex are always keeping my man happy and myself of course.
I always try to make my food good and sex even better after all grandma was right, it keeps him happy. I have manage to make one deliciousness lead to another. And it’s as simple as including aphrodisiacs in your kitchen. Some think that this is all mental but what if I tell you that your food can actually drag you and your partner straight to sex and prove it to you.
There is actually numerous aphrodisiac but only a few have made a reputation of their own. Seafood is known as one of the most fulfilling aphrodisiacs making lots of couples go for that seafood plate on February 14 or that person full of hopes in their first date hoping to make it at least to second base. Well, you guys get the point.
When I mention that the Caribbeans consume aphrodisiacs I was referring to seafood. This aphrodisiac is present on more than their 75% daily plates. Imagine having so much love boost.
Caribbeans and Their Aphrodisiac
Each and every country in the Caribbean claims to have a unique and delicious recipe that will make your love mode boost to the next level.
Based on that we decided to make a quick research of all these different recipes. All of them end up being a mix of seafood and the authentication of the plate was in the sauce. We decided to combine differents aspects of some recipes like Mojo isleño, Break the Matress, Come Back to Life, and Seven Powers to create a fulfilling aphrodisiac. We had lots of Fun putting this ebook together so we are more than happy to share it with you!
Click on the book cover to view and download your Caribbean treasure!
This is not a substitute for erectile dysfunction drugs nor sexual enhancement pill.
Always practice safe and consensual sex.
Open a bottle of wine for the love of sex and enjoy!
How Aphrodisiac Work
Here is a friendly site that explains how aphrodisiac work. Take a peek for more information
Have you ever said I don’t do that when someone asked to go down for them or have you ever asked constantly “you like that” when going down, or you just don’t feel confident enough? You are not alone! 76% of young adults between the ages of 18-30 don’t feel comfortable when giving or receiving oral sex. And it’s normal to feel uncomfortable about something you may not be familiar with or you simply haven’t been exposed to it often. But I promise one thing, once you get a hang of it, you wouldn’t want to give it a rest!
Oral sex often referred to as oral intercourse it’s a sexual activity involving the stimulation of the genitalia by using the mouth. This act can be performed on men and women. Cunnilingus when women are receiving oral sex and fellatio when men are receiving oral sex.
noun \ cun·ni·lin·gus \ˌkə-ni-ˈliŋ-gəs\
Eat her out, dine at the Y, lip reading, muff diving, and the list goes on for all the slangs of cunnilingus. Culinnungus is an oral sex act performed by a person on a female’s genitalia. It can be sexually arousing for any lady when performed by a fellow sexual partner as foreplay to incite sexual intercourse or as an intimate act on its own. General statistic indicates that 70-85% of women require direct clitoral stimulation to achieve the big O. There is a higher chance for any woman to achieve an orgasm by cunnilingus do to the direct clitoral stimulation and other external parts of the vulva that are sensitive to touch.
Most men struggle when trying to give their ladies some oral sex. And we are not here to judge, the cunnilingus guide was not included with the approach of the lovely lady. Therefore we are more than happy to help you with this struggle. To start you must be familiar with all the parts of the vulva before you master it.
“The vulva is the external part of the female genitalia. It protects the women sexual organs, urinary opening, vestibule and vagina and is the center of much of a woman’s sexual response. The outer and inner ‘lips’ are called the labia majora and labia minora. The vestibule surrounds the opening of the vagina, or introitus, and the opening of the urethra, or urethral meatus. The perineum is the area extending from beneath the vulva to the anus.
The pudendal nerve transmits pain messages and other sensations from the vulva. The nerve passes through the pelvis and enters the vulvar region near the ischial spine, which is part of the hip bone. From there, it branches off into the inferior rectal nerve, perineal nerve and dorsal nerve of the clitoris. The pudendal nerve is responsible for proper functioning and control of urination, defecation, and orgasm in both males and females.”
Anatomy description by http://www.nva.org/
It’s a process
After having the necessary knowledge of the vulva’s anatomy it is crucial that you stimulate the right way in the right spot using the right moves. Note that oral sex is more than that mouth and genitalia contact. Cunnilingus is an art of giving her pleasure. To make her feel arouse have in mind that she has to be in the mood. Dominate the challenge of getting her in the mood and make her reach the ultimate pleasure with just a few tips:
•Make her comfortable
Kiss her. It never fails, caress her hair and face and slide your hand down, slowly meanwhile. Making her feel delicate and comfortable will help you build her trust and desire for you.
Touch here, there and everywhere. Being curious and confident is the secret of getting away with it. Now that you are reading a guide, there is no excuse for the lack of confident. As you are being curious kissing and touching her a little bit more notice her reaction. There are areas in her body where she is going to be more sensitive take notes and embrace it.
Lower back, behind the ears, neck, and inner thigh. Embracing those areas is nothing more than a big tease. Touch softly, kiss her gently or slightly bit her she is going to ask for more, I promise!
Foreplay is the ultimate teaser you wouldn’t want to skip this one. Play with her breast, grab her by the @$$, kiss her around the vulva but don’t give in yet. Not until you hear her moaning, breathing hard or begging you to touch her cherry.
There is no rush, start easy and slow, it’s a very delicate area that she’s letting you into. It’s important that you have rhythm and consistency with your tongue. There are three important tongue motions you would want to stick to.
This one is one of the best stimulation technique. Place your tongue on one of the sides of the clitoris and start moving it in circles around the clitoris (only the clit for now) in a clockwise or counter-clockwise motion. Strat slow, as she gets excited, speed it up. remember consistency is very important.
-Up and Down or Side to Side
This is a very easy move, and it feels great. Position your tongue on either the left, right, top or bottom. Move side to side and up and down. Rhythm is the key for this one, and you can make your own as she enjoys it.
This move is to be performed after she’s been aroused. Suction can be overwhelming in the clit at an early stage of cunnilingus. Tthe clit gently in your mouth and lightly suck on it. Be gentle it’s sensitive.
Keep anal contact away from the vulva. This prevents UTI and other complications. It’s a very sensitive are, so treat it like one.
Do’s and Don’ts
Vulva And Mouth Prep
This is basically a must. Good hygiene can help everyone get a nice experience. Ladies, shower before and gentlemen please have a fresh breath and a hydrated mouth.
Ask or Guide
There is nothing worst than wasting your time doing something that is not right. Remember the goal is to give pleasure when practicing cunnilingus. If you are not sure what’s the magic spot, ask her. Be slick about it if you prefer, make her touch herself and she will aim where it feels right. Ladies if you don’t quite like how or where his aiming, tell him, it’s that easy to receive the right stimulation.
Remember when I said it was a sensitive area? I meant it. Don’t bite her down there, not slow, not close, nor far. It’s not cool. If you are one of those that can’t help biting try her neck, inner thigh or buttcheeks this is only if she’s into that.
Don’t bombard the clit
The clit plays a very important role but it can very sensitive causing discomfort and in most cases, pain if it’s over-stimulated.
Do use your hands. It’s oral sex but you can spice it up with some touching here in there, fingers are well appreciated.
Wonder Around The Rest Of The Body
noun/ fel·la·ti·o / fəˈlāSH(ē)ˌō
Blow Job, going down, giving head, sucking off, we are all familiar with this slangs. Fellatio also known fellation, is an oral sex act involving the use of the mouth or throat which is performed by a person on the penis. 87% of men expect oral sex before intercourse. And like I mention before the key to give pleasure is to know the anatomy and functions.
The Shaft Contains the urethra, a passage for urine to leave the body. The Glands has an opening for the urethra. The frenulum is an elastic band of tissue under the glans penis that connects the foreskin. The frenulum and the associated tissue delta on the underside of the penis below the coronahas been described in sexuality textbooks as “very reactive” and “particularly responsive to touch that is light and soft”. The Scrotum & Testicles the scrotum is the sack of skin that hangs below the penis, inside the scrotum are the testicles. Soft and Sensitive.
Be Confident this will make him know who is in control. Remember this can be a playful and exploratory time. With that being said you can make this as fun or sexual as you want it to be. Start with a striptease, a massage or just slowly making your way down, down, down.
Turn Him On
Take the time to tease him, don’t just rush into oral sex with him. It’s very important that he’s aroused before performing oral sex. You can Always take your time to make his friend rise and shine in your mouth but ideally, you would want him to beg for it.
Slide your lips across his neck down to his chest spending time using your tongue as a preview. Kiss his inner thigh, this will drive him out of his mind.
A helping Hand
Sliding your hands up in down with a slight twist will increase his pleasure. This can also help you rest a little your mouth as you won’t have to go deeper nor open your mouth wider. Making your performance last longer and synchronized.
Deepthroat If You Want To Take It To The Next Level
Most guys don’t experience deep throat during oral sex. If you want to give him something most girls can’t I warn you it takes effort and practice. Deepthroat happens when fellatio is performed and the penis touches the throat ( usually causing a gag reflex ). Most men claim that it gives them a really good sensation. Yo can search for positions that will help you take it deeper and also some exercise for the gag reflex.
Touch yourself while giving him pleasure. You are not going to believe how much this turns him on. It makes him more excited to see that you are also getting some pleasure at his fun time. It confirms that you are enjoy giving pleasure and that you also know what you want. And if you have to moan because it feels good, don’t be shy!
Give The Twins Some Love
They don’t fall too far from the three so give them love. As I mentioned before the testicles are very sensitive and part of his pleasure zone. You can use your hands to massage softly or use your mouth, your tongue can be magical.
Once you’re in action, maintaining a rhythm is a must. If you can master the rhythm and consistency forget about being delicate. Yes, they like it rough, fast and intense. If your goal is for him to reach that Ooooh my God point, don’t stop until you see him reach the climax.
Do not use your teeth. It’s easier to avoid scratching him when you hide your teeth with your lips. And don’t forget to do the penis and mouth prep it is very important if you’re looking for a pleasant moment.
Here Are Some Positions To Consider When Having Oral Sex
Under The Cuckoo’s Nest
Licking The Flagpole
Pie In The Sky
Riding The North Face
Riding The South Face
Under The Sink
Under The Hood
Always practice safe and consensual sex
OSA Christmas Campaign Save The Elves
As all of you know, we opened a sex boutique recently. so we really want to share the real reason and tell you the story behind it.
For the past twenty years, the population has been changing. The birth rate has been declining year after year raising concerns about the future.
Since 2006 Santa Clause has been struggling to maintain his shop. There are not many kids to substitute the growing ones based on population decline and stunted growth. There’s not a lot of wish lists being sent like years ago. So every year Santa must lay off around 200 elves.
How would we ensure that elves keep a profession of making toys that they’ve been training all their lives for?
Oral Sex Academy (OSA) decided to open a Boutique at the right time of the year, helping Santa open an adult toys department for good.
Elves are real and they needed our help.
So along with our opening, we decided to start an indiegogo campaign https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/save-the-elves-christmas/x/15600049#/
Helping raise awareness and some funds for the elves and shop.
About our Indiegogo Campaign
What We Need & What You Get
We have listed some perks for every donation, We are exchanging some products. Like an indirect shopping.
And I promise all of our perks are worth it, even the donate one.
Get a perk for a better Christmas for you and the elves.
•Our $500 goal will be enough for the workshop to survive the holiday season. Overpassing this goal would help them survive for a longer time.
•We are just a hub, all this money is going to the elves, and you would be compensated for that. Through buying a perk you will be getting back a worthwhile toy. It’s like interesting in the shop.
Save The Elves, Donate
•Little by little we can reach our goal, be part of that. Donate $3 to help us spread the word, and give the elves some shelter and food.
Do Your Share, Save An Elf
•One toy can save one elf for the holiday season. With $10 you will be ordering a surprise toy. We won’t disappoint you, Elves are excited to build a toy just for you!
Put Them To Work
•With $25 you will purchase a combo, Toy (vibrator) and one extra perk (toy cleaner, lubricant, or naughty candy). You can save three elves with this perk.
•When you get this $55 perk you will be saving ten elves!!
This wish includes:
•With the value of $100+, there are twenty-five elves working to give and receive a happy holiday.
The toy received will be one of our top five products.
So you can have an Idea of what type of products you will be receiving go to https://www.oralsexacademy.com/shop/ and take a look at our products. If you want a specific product shop at the OSA Boutique, you will be helping to save the elves either way.
If the goal is not reached we will continue our campaign next year and we won’t stop until we save the elves. Your funds given will go to the elves and shop and you will still receive your perk!
This campaign was started based on empathy. Elves have made us happy as we were growing up and so did Santa Clause. They made Christmas the most fun and exciting day ever.
Please return the favor, but we must ask that you enjoy this as much as they will do.
Share the word of this campaign and your contributions to this great cause.
Our goal doesn’t stop here, we want to give every contributor a new Christmas experience. It’s not only for children, we want to make an even more exciting Christmas than we all had when we were kids.
Spicing up contributors sex lives is our mission, let us help.
We’ve been making great strides with our online courses and sexual consulting.
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Risks & Challenges
It’s a big challenge for us to change people’s perspective of Christmas.
Having people to participate in this campaign and share it is to break many taboos and myths about sexuality during Christmas and throughout the year. Yet we believe in open-minded people and sexually open souls. It’s you who is going to help us save the elves and many adults from a sad Christmas.
We will share this as much as we can and ask you to do the same. Help us revolutionize this Christmas.
Other Ways You Can Help
Visit our Boutique Shop and Save the Elves
Share this campaign on social media or private messages with friends and loved ones. No elf should be left behind.
We are very excited and also very nervous. Elves are counting on us and we are counting on you.
Get a perk, shop at our boutique or spread the word, thank you and happy holidays.
Join Our Oral Sex Academy (OSA) Team
There are many ways to be a perfect lover, to become a member of Oral Sex Academy is one of the best ways. Become an expert Fellatrix. Working together we can transform the world’s perspective of sexuality. Join our academy of passionate enthusiastic sexual educators.
Who Can Join ?
Any person 18-year-old or older who is committed to expanding their horizons. It’s very important to remember that we offer sexual education courses and content for an adults audience.Oral Sex Academy takes its responsibility to shield minors from sexually explicit material seriously. Keep in mind that when you enroll our courses we may use your credit card as a source of ID.
If you are a parent concern about your children’s internet access there are programs available to limit their access to adult-oriented sites.
We suggest the following programs :
OSA Monthly Membership
Oral Sex Academy (OSA) is a new evolution in sexual education. With our $9.99 monthly membership, you can get access to the Fellatio Course ™. It’s an affordable way to get full access to our premium content. You will also get full access to our future courses, video shows and exclusive store offers for members.
About: Fellatio Course ™
Become an expert Fellatrix. You can get a one of a kind education through our amazing ten video courses with all of the techniques, tricks, skills, and a whole lot more. You can also earn this course with a single click. Visit The clips for more information.
We’ve put together ten educational chapter-videos to professionally train you in the art of oral sex. You will learn everything, we will guide you throughout the basic fundamentals all the way to the expert techniques that only a true master can perform. Updated constantly to Bring you the latest developed innovative content by a team of experts. About us.
All Chapters are produced and directed in a precise order to complete the objective step by step. Sexual health requires specific information and attitudes to avoid unwanted consequences in sexual life.
Male Sexual Anatomy
In this section of the course, you will discover all of the wonderful features of the male sexual anatomy. This is the fundamental lesson to a better understanding of how your man functions physically as the perfect introduction.
Our course on Penis Features will further enhance your understanding of the inner workings of the penis itself. You must crawl before you walk and this lesson will definitely get you moving in the right direction.
Male Sexual Response Cycle
In this third course, we will break down the process of the Male Sexual Response Cycle. You will learn the various stages that occur in your man’s mind and body from the first thought of sex to the ultimate climactic moment.
Testicle, Semen, and ejaculation
Yes, they are part of the practice! That’s right, your educational journey will now focus on the functions and processes involved with the production of semen. Everything involving how it’s made and why and how it affects a man’s sexuality.
In this lesson, we will cover a vast array of techniques in the art of seduction. We will break down the physiology and the psychology behind the power of seduction and teach you how to master the ability of arousal.
Erection And Ejaculation
At this point in your education is going to get a little steamy. You will now learn the importance of relaxation and comfortability for your partner. How to get him there and how to avoid having any dull moments or early finishes.
Hands and Postures
The techniques you will study in this course will not only improve your ability to get your partner to the level of ultimate pleasure but also teach you how to position yourself to make it as comfortable as possible for both of you.
Oral Sex Techniques
In this chapter, we will truly define the different styles of motion associated with performing fellatio. What they are, how to perform them, and how it will affect your partners physically.
Infections, Hygiene, and Condoms
This lesson is all about the various risks that are involved with oral sex and how to prevent any complications during your experience with your partner. And how to stay safe at all time.
Orthodontics, Pubic Pair, Lubricants and Dildos
Our final course explains everything from what to do if you or your partner has braces, to trimming techniques. You will also learn the variations between different lubricants as well as dildos and their best use.
Please help us to improve our courses sending us your feedback, visit contact us.
Perks of Being an OSA Member
There are many intelligence reasons to join OSA. Whether you are an expert looking to improve your skills or someone looking to learn the good stuff and be a master in fellatio. We honor our students because they are the future of our academy.
We want our members to feel like home. Therefore you can watch the course at your own pace at any place of your convenience; on your computer or phone. Our website is mobile friendly. And you can watch as many times as you please. Get access to all of our videos (beginner and advanced).
We offer a live support 24/7 over the phone or by email. If you have any questions, concerns or suggestions, we are very happy to listen and help.
We are also committed to bringing new products and more content. This is only our first course. We are working really hard researching, producing and directing our second course. And so it will go on and on. Our mission is to provide as many educational courses as often as possible.
How to Join
It’s super easy, I’ll guide you step by step. It’s safe and easy and you can cancel at any time.
- Visit https://www.oralsexacademy.com/pricing/
- Click the red start button
- Use your email address and create a password, then click register my account
- It will be detailed, the membership chosen. Place code if apply if not click continue
- Credit card & billing information. Click continue and you are on the right path of becoming an Oral Sex expert.
See you on the other side
They say that all the good things in life must be shared; that’s why Oral Sex Academy is pleased to announce the grand opening of our stylish sex boutique. This grand opening is happening now. We have a great variety of high-quality products plus 24/7 live support. It’s a nice chic boutique to shop for sex products and to spice up your sex life. We want to make you a part of it.
Oral Sex Academy (OSA) has worked hard building and developing ideas for the boutique turning it into the center of attention of our web page. We chose to call it Sex Boutique to follow the lead of our brand; fashion, elegance, and trendy. Every product was picked out by our web content crew after a couple of online surveys taking into consideration most of our members and followers lifestyles. We took our time to understand the need of every individual creating a very comfortable environment in our website. It’s designed to break stereotypes of sex shops and sex products. We keep it classy so you don’t have to behind doors.
OSA is an institute that is designed to bring a new evolution with sexual education in a very discrete way. Our team, of international experts, are professionally certified in human anatomy, sexual therapy, psychology; the list goes on. Our mission is to transform all the follower and members into experts fellatrix with the online courses, stories, and articles shared on our blog. Therefore the products in our new sex boutique should be the cherry on top of the sundae (our mission).
There is plenty of product to choose from the different categories with an average of affordable products. Products are divided into eight categories, they all have their description and function. We also decided to create these categories based on our brand style and trending products around the nation. They are fun and sexy:
We have some tasty fun lubricants and some plain water based for sensitive skin.
There is plenty of options to choose from in our nice stash. Some with clitoral stimulators, some with a g-spot stimulator, some with a nice combo stimulator and elegant panties that would tingle your soul.
There is always one for every woman. Chose the right for you, that would compliment your sexual life. Because sometimes it’s not a one man’s job.
Wear sexy, feel sexy. We also have a queen size section.
- Beauty & Body
We promote beauty and elegance. Since confidence is a must in your sexual life these delicate body products will help you keep the game on.
- Eco-Friendly Toys
Do your Share with the world, go green even between sheets. Battery toys are so last year anyway.
- Naughty Candies
Sweet naughty temptations. They are the only candies you would want to share.
- Toy Cleaners
Hygiene after the fun is very important for you and your toys. Extend your toys life with the correct procedure. We have a variety of wipes, spray, antibacterial gel and foam wash.
This is by far my favorite part, and I am very excited to share details with you guys. It is basically a list of diverse trending products that you can also find in their different categories. Based on the views, the number of purchases and reviews, the product is choose and place on the list. So this is real trending stuff based on our audience preferences. You guys can use this list as a guide especially if your intuition is absence during your shopping time.
This is a quick review of our current trending products:
- Dona Body Topping This is the door to an amazing foreplay. Blindfold, Sweet lollipop flavor and a super bonus of aphrodisiacs and pheromones. It comes with an applicator and the texture is just perfect it’s a clear gel-like product. It doesn’t slide off onto the sheets, stays put. The taste is not overwhelming at all, no after taste. Note that a shower is needed when done.
- Entice Katharine It’s a soft silicone vibrator that heats up with friction. Two vibrating speeds, no need for more and it’s rechargeable. It’s not a long toy, I would say it’s a five or six inch length. This makes vibrator the perfect size to hit the g-spot with the curvy end. It also has bunny ears that are designed to stimulate the clitoris at while penetrating and vibrating inside. Yes, this is a double stimulator (my favorite) the perfect combo. So there is no way you won’t get pleasure out of this.
- Octo-Pleaser Massager Besides of being cute and adorable this is a very practical toy. I definitely included this one in the foreplay goody bag. It’s perfect to give some really good massage and receive a great massage, after all we give to receive in this sexual world. It’s very gentle, and there is a way to upgrade this use with massage oils.
My favorites: –Body Heat This is a like magical stuff. You rub, it warms up. So you lick and then blow as often as you want for constant temperature change feeling. Note that this is a warming massage oil. if you are going to use it for oral sex, be aware that this can affect vaginal P H balance and taste might be a little overwhelming if you put a lot.
–Dona Scented Massage Candle Sassy Aroma – Tropical Tease This is the perfection for war massage. Light up the moment with a delicate aroma candle. Once you are in the mood, in the perfect low light scene use the same candle for the oil to massage your body gentle. Don’t worry about how hot it would be. I promise it’s going to be perfect with a gentle touch. You would love this two in one, very practical and it doesn’t give you a sticky feeling afterward.
–Dona Kissable Massage Candle – Chocolate Mousse This one is really perfect for pushing some boundaries in bed or your favorite place. So this is the three in one low light mood, rubbing hands and some kisses all over the place. This is amazing it can be a little bit sweet but if you are like me, you would never have enough of this chocolate mousse on top of my favorite person.
- Vibrating Foam Sponge I call this tickle me Sponge Bob. It’s actually really fun if you like to spice it up in the shower with your couple. I personally love when I get showered. Is there anything better than having your loved one taking care of you in the shower? Well, not really, unless my shower sponge is vibrating. I used this for my shower foreplay and it hasn’t failed. Ladies if you are looking for a vibrator that would make you finish in two minutes this is not the product you are looking for. This should be in your foreplay fun list.
- Vibrating Gold Egg This is real gold. I am a fan of toys that can be used during intercourse and this is perfect for that. Those who are open with their sexuality with partners. This is your product. I have always chosen the bullet over cock rings. I invite cock ring lovers to try this product or any bullet vibrator. you won’t ever go back, I promise.
- Vive Aviva It has a very particular and unique design. We can definitely get away with it in airports or with family intruders. It does not look like a sex toy at all. It’s pure silicone, waterproof and anti-dust. Is love, at first sight, is guaranteed to give you an amazing wave of stimulation, promising, With its idiosyncratic form and its 10 different vibration modes, the result of a new and unique technology, Aviva will take you into ecstatic moods and incredibly strong.
- Vive Shiatsu This one has a luxurious look and a unique design. You get pleasured just by looking at it. It’s a fancy version of the popular magic wand. It’s USB rechargeable, up to 65 minutes working time, waterproof, high-grade, anti-dust silicone. It has a flexible head that has been designed with twenty-four stimulation points for optimal stimulation. You can choose to use its ten different vibration patterns to stimulate your clitoris or use the bottom of the toy that will give you and amazing penetration. Pretty cool, right? Now that’s what I like to call a real evolution of wands.
- W500 Deluxe Womanizer Us ladies are used to the vibrating pressure to stimulate our happy bean. And it has worked out perfect, no complaints. But what if there was a product that allows you to discover new intense and persistent pleasure. I know you would try it, me too. Well, this product is real. Womanizer is a trending product not only in our sex boutique but in many sex shops as well. They affirm that many women have had a completely new orgasm feeling with this product. And, no this is not a vibrator at all. It has a new technology that enables the clitoris to be stimulated without contact, for the first time. It claims to be the most powerful stimulation device that is on the world market. I know you guys are wondering how does it work? well, it basically sucks your clitoris nice in gentle ( what is gentle when you want pleasure anyway). So it stimulates with no pressure needed. This is a new experience that you must try.
Shopping and Shipping
With all that being shared it’s really important to explain some details about shopping and shipping. It is a very easy process, all products have their description and they are under specific categories as we mention before. And our website is mobile friendly. We also have a live support 24/7 available. We are available to help you with any questions or concerns that may be presented at the time. And we can definitely give you our feedback on products that are on your list of interest. We ship international orders, we don’t want to limit our members and shoppers. So feel free to ask about, estimate time and charge (if apply).
We ship international orders, we don’t want to limit our members and shoppers. So feel free to ask about, estimate time and charge (if apply).Shipping is safe and private. It would be a plain box arriving at your home. So you won’t have to worry about neighbors and family that you don’t like to share your secrets with, it will be our little secret. You don’t even have to worry about the transaction of your card, it would be charge under OS Academy.
Be Part of OSA
Here at the Oral Sex Academy, we strive to be the best and offer only the highest quality education and high-quality product. So take a look at our page. Sign up today and start your training to become the best of the best in the art of oral sex. There are some perks for our members in the Sex Boutique, free shipping with every purchase you make is one. Enjoy our blog site, the online boutique and don’t hesitate to contact us for more information. Also want to remind you guys that we have a 50 % off every purchase. And an awesome deal for a limited time: buy any product under the vibrators categories and get a free toy cleaner. You must take advantage of this great deals. Keep enjoying your sex life, See you on the other side whenever you are ready to become a member.
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Improving the taste of semen
Have you ever had to taste semen? Did it taste funny? Maybe a little bitter or salty? There is a reason for the flavor. It all has to do with diet and health.
There are not a lot of people who would say they absolutely love the taste of semen but there are many ways to improve it. Just think, if men can make it as pleasant of an experience as possible for the one who is doing the gracious favor of getting it out, maybe they’ll do it more often. Sounds pretty good, right?
So what are some things that will help with the flavor?
Semen is composed of a large variety of proteins, amino acids, sugars, cholesterol, vitamins, minerals, hormones, and water. Only about 1% of semen is actually sperm. So because the makeup is almost anything but sperm, everything you consume has a major effect on the flavor. It’s just like when you eat too much garlic and the person next to you can smell it coming out of your pores when you sweat. Ironically garlic has a negative effect on the flavor of semen as well. In fact, red meat, most dairy products, garlic, onion, broccoli, asparagus, cabbage, cauliflower, fried food, junk food, alcohol, nicotine, recreational drugs, and coffee are all major contributors to a poor tasting semen.
In contrary, sugary fruits such as pineapples, apples, grapes, papaya, mango, melons, and virtually anything naturally sweet are ideal. Along with vegetables with low acidity and lots of water. All of these delicious foods are directly responsible for a pleasant tasting semen. Also, Celery, wheatgrass, parsley, peppermint, cardamom, cinnamon, vanilla, nutmeg, ginger, and lemon are all positive influences for improving the flavor. Supplements for zinc and selenium are additionally recommended because both are necessary for healthy sperm.
Poultry does not have an affect and fish is different for each individual so before you cut fish out of your diet, test it out and see because fish is very healthy. The best part about trying to make semen taste better is the fact that it is very healthy because of the food choices directly associated. So, not only will the taste of semen improve, but you will feel more healthy and fit as well.
Does this mean I have to change my eating habits forever?
Just because many of the items mentioned aren’t good for the flavor, it doesn’t mean that you can’t enjoy them from time to time. Just remember this, generally, it takes between 12 to 24 hours for you to actually excrete the “flavor”. So if you have big plans that would suggest a tasty semen be present then, by all means, stay away from certain foods until after that time.
Another great way to take care of the flavor is through special products that are designed to mask the acidic, bitter, slightly metallic taste. One example is a product known as “Masque Sexual Flavors”. It is a strip that dissolves on your tongue. You place it on your tongue before going down on your man and then you “get ready to experience up to fifteen minutes of mind-blowing, confidence-boosting pleasure”. They come in four flavors: strawberry, watermelon, chocolate, and mango. The product is designed to take away the semen flavor and replace it with the flavor of your choosing.
So, all in all, there are plenty of options to improve the flavor of semen. Try experimenting with the different varieties and see what you or your partner think about the taste. It is sure to help the overall experience.
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