Before The Quickie
It was one of those happy days where I can literally have sex all day long. It was the weekend of my birthday and I was so excited to be in a lovely city like Savannah, GA. The weather was perfect and the bed so comfortable. As you can guess me and my boyfriend had sex for breakfast. We had plans for the day so we started our adventure. All day long I had the idea that we would come back to the apartment and have some quick sex and then continue our journey. I had strong faith that it would happen so I put on my favorite dress with no panties on. You can imagine how sensitive and good I felt all day.
We did so many fun things during the day through bar hopping, monuments, and restaurants… but I couldn’t stop thinking about sex. Every look and touch I gave my boyfriend he knew for sure to interpret them as a sexual request. He just loves to tease me and he ignored me for most of the day with that evil smile. I only wanted a quickie I wasn’t asking for more!
Quickies Are What?
I used to think quickies were a morning thing. How naive right? The crazy idea started when I had some place to be. My boyfriend and I decided to have a short passionate version of love, “a quickie.” When we were done having sex I was already 40 minutes late. So I decided to permanently limit quickies for the mornings.
Having a quickie is a little unrealistic for me based on my experiences. I decided to give it a second chance by adjusting some things.
How Quick Is A Quickie Supposed To Be?
After that exhausting day of controlling my urges and walking around the city, I settled with a cup of coffee and a nice ass-grab. We got a cup of coffee at a nice quiet little café. That window corner where we sat had a nice view of the old city full of history. It was a very cozy atmosphere I remember the soothing background music some nice classical Jazz.
Everyone was very nice and kind but little do they know the fire burning in between my legs. I was still craving my man, especially at that time when I knew I was going to get some soon. It’s funny because at this point he doesn’t even supect that I’m craving him more and more. I felt very naughty as I tried to organize my thoughts with my body language. I kept on moving my left leg and smiling at him after every sip. He was either very oblivious or a total evil boyfriend making me beg with my eyes.
I had to take a tinkle so I made my way to the restroom. I rubbed my hand around his neck as I was walking away I finally got the responsive look I was aiming for. Honestly, I took my precious time, it was one of those cool hipster bathrooms with a chalkboard wall full of some deep thoughts. I decided to write down my blog address. To spread some love around is always my goal. I freshened up, fixed my hair and pulled my dress down. I had a plan …
I opened the restroom door to my surprise there was that sexy thing I wanted to do all day. As I walked out he walked in, there was that look again. I pushed the door to open as he smiled.
What do you want? He asked as he came closer and locked the door.
You know what I…. He interrupted me with a kiss. His hands went straight down my dress.
There was ecstasy all over the place. My hormones were uncontrollable. As he unbuckled his pants he asked me, Is this what you want? Before I could even respond with a f$%^ Yeah, he bent me in front of the sink mirror.
3 Minutes In Heaven
Next thing I knew I was having sex in a coffee shop restroom. I was enjoying his face as much as I was enjoying him inside of me. He had a face of pleasure combined with firm movements. It was honestly what I’ve been waiting for all day. He grabbed me by the hair as he was pounding fast inside of me. I limited myself to enjoy the moment and to not worry about what was going on outside. I’m pretty sure no one suspects anything, the bathrooms were far from the cashier and tables view.
I dripped a little on his shirt and pants as my legs were shaking. He gave my one last pound then kissed me on my forehead. My adrenaline was over. Everything happened so fast that all I did was smile as I pulled my dress down. He walked out first and the coast was clear.
And We’re Out
We walked as fast as we could out of that café without looking at anyone. Once we were out we looked at each other and laugh, I laugh so hard. Mixed feelings all over the place. I was satisfied, happy, and very emotional it was another type of love connection. Its probably the fact it was the first time we did something so crazy. Those three minutes of glory basically set the stage and paste for the rest of the weekend. And is definitely something that we remind each other all the time, maybe not to try it again but to remind us about how strong is our sexual connection. I learned that you can’t schedule a quickie. That’s the magic of sex, in general, the excitement begins when you stop worrying and enjoying the moment.
As we were walking away I grabbed his ass and promise to return the favor. I could hardly wait for our night section.
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After a few drinks,
I tried to spice up the missionary position, and I made it rain! It is amazing how I squirted for the first time with no effort or plan ahead. So, it’s a pleasure to have a chance to introduce adventurist readers to that glorious climax point and how I’ve reached this perfection. I quote Goncalves Zavale, squirting, also known as the female ejaculation via vaginal orgasm:“A liquid most treasured and revered in ancient.”
Squirting is a release of fluid from the external genitalia associated with sexual activities. I want to clarify that this can be a solo or duo practice. Yes, any woman can squirt. Just because you’ve never had a vaginal orgasm doesn’t mean you can’t. With the right approach, it can happen. Some are just lucky to randomly experience it, explore why it happened, and how to repeat it (guilty).
I have long been exploring my sexual life. Overall, I felt more satisfied with my sexual life than the average women my age. I had no idea what I was missing until a romantic night with my boyfriend. I felt a nice tickle and an urge to pee all in one new and exciting feeling. Yes, ladies, it’s a weird peeing feeling, but it is the most amazing feeling ever, I promise.
I’ll share the secret: the G-spot.
Considered an erogenous zone located inside a woman internally. This magnificent part of our body is located about one-third of the way into the front of the vagina. I personally think that this is one of the most amazing parts of the female anatomy (sorry clitoris). Once it’s stimulated with hands, toys, or partner, it can take you to heaven.
There is a noticeable difference between the clitoral and G-spot orgasm for those who have experienced both. For years I could have sworn that it was impossible to surpass that splendid clit finish, not that these are the only two types of orgasm to have.
Some of the other types of orgasms are:
- The Coregasm Orgasm triggered by exercise
- The Skin – really similar to goose bumps
And it is possible to achieve a blend orgasms clitoral and vaginal, and that, my dear readers, is what I like to call perfection.
Basically, if I would have to describe and compare both, I would describe them like a sauce. A clitoral orgasm is a mild sauce, very basic, and it goes perfectly with everything. A vaginal orgasm is more like the spicy Mexican homemade sauce as it improves and complements sexual senses. The blend is like chile habanero sauce: really good, and almost too good to handle.
Even though there is little research about G-spot/vaginal squirting, there has been much controversy amongst researchers. Some claim that it is urine and others have found prostatic specific antigens (PSA), which confirm that the liquid in a female ejaculate comes out of the female urethra from the bladder.
I can’t exactly give you proof. But, ladies and gentlemen, I must insist everyone give it a go!
And now my story.
I’ve always been very sexual and open to trying new things with my sexual partners, and most important, with myself. When I was younger, I discovered the clitoral orgasm, and, for me, that was the door that opened my genuine sexual life.
I remember touching myself in the right spot. A few rubs with just a great imagination, and maybe seven minutes later, the most incredible feeling dominated my body, I couldn’t control my moves or voice. My legs were shaking, my abdomen got contracted, and my hand started to get really wet. It was a good thing I was in the house by myself. It probably lasted like 11 seconds, but it felt like 10 minutes in heaven. The sense of self- accomplish was at a 100% level. It was a new and best feeling so far, but I knew exactly what was going on: I reached the climax. And like a typical teenager, I would try it every time I could, even if it meant five times a day.
I felt invincible with my golden fingers. After that, I had a couple of sexual experiences with intercourse. It was good to have someone else to wet it for you. But if I was going back home to finish myself, I was definitely lacking something. I couldn’t understand how I could touch myself and orgasm so easily but my partners couldn’t figure it out. It took me a while to demand what I wanted and how I desired it.
Years after my first orgasm,
I decided to go on a fun cruise trip with my boyfriend. We like to try new things constantly, and it makes me very happy,but we never planned a move or an angle to hit the G-spot and make it rain. However, a couple of weeks before, while in the missionary position, I was getting more wet than the usual and he said: “If you feel like you need to pee, let it go.” Honestly, that made me almost laugh and lose some concentration that I had with my dear clit.
But that unique sensation came back that night on the cruise while I was in the same position. I felt the tickle and the slight urge to pee, so told him “Harder!” I kept on rubbing. OH MY GOD! I felt like I was a teenager again It was the most amazing climax I’ve ever experienced, and I mean it. So, we searched for some information, went back to the same position, and angled it just right. Now I have mastered it in my favorite position, missionary, and during my solo times.
I guess what I am trying to explain is that the most remarkable element for this glorious event to take place is to explore your partner’s anatomy and understand that everybody is different.
I took you guys on this trip because, for me, it has always been important to know my body before I can teach someone else how, where, and when to touch, and I still feel like that curious teenager. Exploring your sexuality has nothing to do with your age; it’s about self-confidence and safe practice. May the urge be ever in your favor.
Group Sex Has It’s Pros and Cons
There are many people who would jump at the opportunity to engage in group sex and many others who shun the idea. In my situation, when I was younger, I was very promiscuous and I guess, in the eyes of some men, very fortunate. It all started when I was a teenager. I was hanging out in a gay nightclub that promoted an open door policy to all sexual preferences, but emphasized on complete respect for the gay culture that was predominant. No I’m not gay if you’re wondering, but I have zero prejudice to the lifestyle and I had a blast spending my teenage years dancing the night away.
The reason I initially would go out to this particular club was because they had an additional club upstairs that played industrial music, yes it was the early 90’s and I was one of “those” at the time. I eventually began to meet a large variety of people and began to work my way into the dance scene in the main club. As a result, I was introduced to a subculture that I was completely unaware of.
I met a girl
I met a girl who happened to be considered a member of the “royal order” among the LGBTQ community. She had been given the title of “Miss Leather” which meant that she was the appointed leader representing the “butch” side or as I prefer to say the head tomboy of the lesbians at the time. She was a very pretty girl and enjoyed her femininity as much as any other woman, however she liked her hair short, she cursed like a sailor, and loved a good strap-on. She and her counterpart, Miss Lace, took quite a liking to me and eventually took my virginity. In the beginning I thought I was the king of the world. Soon they began to introduce me to more and more lesbians within the order. Then they gave me a title known as the Dyke Princess, I didn’t know that such a role existed, but I was crowned with it apparently. They actually made me wear a necklace with the female symbol dangling from it to signify my status. This opened a whole new door in my life. You might have heard of the term “Fag Hag” somewhere in your lifetime and if you don’t know what it means, well basically it’s a woman who is infatuated with gay men. Many times, but not always, the gay men will allow said woman to engage in sexual acts with them. To my surprise, the local lesbian community also had a similar yet opposite situation where they allowed a certain special straight male to engage in their sexual festivities.
I just happened to be that guy.
I’m a short guy, only 5’ 5’’, and I’ve always had a baby face. They loved it. They thought that I dressed and looked just like one of them, at least from behind anyways. I’ve known many gay women and I personally found out that many of them still like to have sex with a man from time to time. However, at the time, among their peers it was generally frowned upon. By appointing an official Dyke Princess to the ranks, it gave a green light for them to have sex with me without fear of disapproval. At first I didn’t quite get it until I started to be invited to “hang out” socially after late night club sessions. That’s when things got freaky.
So the first couple of times I was extremely nervous and didn’t really quite know where to begin or even what was considered to be okay or not. I learned quickly that they were far more experienced than me and I was like an innocent flower about to be exploited to the max. If you have never been in a room with at least a half a dozen vaginas to work with before, then let me tell you it can be a little intimidating. I will say one thing though, I never had to worry about who had the biggest package.
I learned that in my circumstances it was unwise to spend too much time on any one particular person, there is always room for jealousy even in the most openly sexual environments. So I got passed around a lot. Quickly, I realized that not everyone is my type. But I still had to spend a little time and please each individual just the same. It’s one of those situations, unfortunately, where often enough it was more work than pleasure. In addition, I was also a guinea pig for many because there were quite a few girls who had never had straight sex before and they were either intrigued or completely turned off by the idea, but yet strangely willing to try none the less. I think awkward is the best word to describe the situation because whether I wanted to or not, I was expected to deliver.
People come in all different shapes and sizes and I’ve definitely seen my share in peculiar positions.
I recall a few times where I found myself thinking “wow, I didn’t know they could do that” and other times saying “I really don’t see the fun in that, but oh well, to each there own.”. There is a fine line between fantasy and reality and sometimes that line shouldn’t necessarily be crossed. Any over indulgences in life can lead to a little mental dysfunction and I found myself having difficulty understanding the difference between intimacy and just sex. Especially when none of the people I was sexually involved with had any desire to have an exclusive relationship with me. It was a very unemotional experience altogether.
As I got a little older I eventually kind of got tired of the craziness and stepped down as the Dyke Princess after meeting someone who at the time I thought I was in love with. The relationship didn’t last very long after she discovered what I had experienced in my past. It made her feel inadequate and she basically started to look at me a little perversely. I also didn’t have what it took to be committed to any one person because I had already been exposed to sex in the wrong way.
Don’t worry about me
I eventually discovered the power of intimacy and I personally believe that a meaningful emotional sexual experience is far superior to any masquerade. Would I do it all over again knowing what I know now, it’s hard to say. I know now that I am extremely open sexually because of my experiences, but I can also say that it’s one thing to watch something in a movie or fantasize about it in your mind, however, extreme real life scenarios are rarely what you expect them to be. Although, I do admit I had some wild times. Your personal experiences in life are part of what make you who you are today. And I guess that my past helped carve out my future to an extent. I currently have an amazing career with www.oralsexacademy.com and I’m pretty sure that I wouldn’t be doing this if I hadn’t been forged out of my past encounters. I get to develop sexual education platforms for today’s society and I love what I do, but it’s not for everyone.
Really my advice to anyone reading this is simple, be careful what you wish for because you just might get it and for many of you, don’t be surprised if it’s not really what you were looking for. Good luck out there!
Bondage is the practice of domination and submission through the use of restraints. For example, using ties erotically on different parts of the body such as blindfolding, handcuffing, tying the ankles or hands, etc… I am going to share some of my personal experience and discuss how to apply bondage during fellatio.
To my surprise, I must confess that I loved it. I found complete trust with my partner and I dared to experiment. In doing so, I discovered that I am much attuned to it because I enjoy feeling dominated.
He began to tie my hands and I could see how even more excited he was to see me. Taking the time to immobilize my body and build up my excitement with sweet sensations of anticipation and surprise. Once I was in submission, he began to lick all over. The feeling was indescribable. I was feeling more pleasure and excitement than when I have my hands free. And when he approached to my erogenous zone, I exploded with desire. Then he put a blindfold over my eyes and for a moment I felt nervous. I wanted to free myself! And although it seemed contradictory, I was excited to try even more. So I just let myself be consumed by all of those feelings that I had not experienced before. I let them run rampant through my body.
The freedom that I felt with the collaboration of sensations, emotions, and excitement was virtually indescribable.
The practice of bondage is not only for us, but also for men to enjoy based on the role they decide to take. If he is the master, seeing his partner experience all of that desire and pleasure fascinated him. Now, when he was submissive, his mind was expanded as I included fellatio to exalt his fire and desire.
Here are some tips and tricks to make your practice of bondage create a difference in him when you perform fellatio.
- First select what instrument you’re going to use to tie him up with. You can use whatever he is comfortable with. It all just depends on your imagination. Some common options are handcuffs, neckties, socks, belts, tape, rope, a piece of fabric, or even your underwear. Keep within your reach, but out of his sight the toys, feathers, whips etc… or other things that you’re going to use.
- Have on hand some round tipped scissors in case of an emergency. Or just use them as part of the experience at the end.
- Start by seducing him using only his sense of sight. Provoke him with your body. Use the lingerie he likes to see in you or try something new. Let him only see and admire you, his imagination will run crazy. More so then if you were just naked and do not let him touch you.
- Now exploit the second sense, touch. You are in full control so he only gets to feel what you allow. Play with it and tease a little. Let him slightly feel your skin and your curves. While you pass over you’re immobilizing him. Start with his hands. Give him more teasing to know that he felt you and now he can’t. Then do it with his ankles spreading his legs.
- Now you got him where you want him. Don’t forget to maintain control, now play…
- You know his erogenous zones, it is time to activate and stimulate them.
- Find your toys and start using them with him. Play with textures and objects of different temperatures such as ice, metal, syrups, feathers, leather. Whatever you like. Now you should start to lick him, always on his body. Maintain contact.
- Go all over his body, but don’t start performing fellatio just yet. The main dish is his penis and you have to leave that for last. Incorporate it gradually. Begins by playing and teasing near his genitals. You can even pass your tongue around it but don’t put it in your mouth. This will increase his excitement level and he will want it badly. He will be begging at this point. Not necessarily with words, but with his body and gestures.
- When you get him to that point where he explodes with desire because your mouth makes direct contact and without interruption, then you begin fellatio.
The ties can be removed after you have enjoyed the moment. Use the scissors or leave them loose so that he can undo them himself without difficulty.
The experience for both of you will be unique and unforgettable. There are sex shops where you can find specific toys to practice bondage. Get some tips and visit our store at www.oralsexacademy.com to live this experience without any risk or danger. Dare to do it. You’ll be surprised with the results.
There is no ideal place to perform oral sex with your partner, but your imagination plays a very fundamental role.
How bold you can be and the willingness you feel to do it brings the basic and necessary elements for a unique moment of pleasure. Adrenalin, spontaneity, and a dose of risk increase libido.
Challenge yourself and free your imagination. Every man is not seeking the perfect woman. Just one that becomes part of his fantasies. One that surprises him with erotic games and one way to do so is giving oral sex in places and in moments that he does not expect.
- In the car. While you are cruising around at night on a street with low traffic. What a perfect moment to give him a dose of pleasure.
- On the balcony of your house or apartment. If you don’t have one try just looking through the window. It’s like transporting him to another place, this will drive him crazy.
- On an exercise machine. Whatever you have in the home, a treadmill, bicycle, bars, or weights all are perfect to take his pants off and start fellatio. When he is exercising and his sweat is flowing down his body his adrenaline is in affect. A touch of pleasure won’t hurt.
- Inside a camping tent. Whether you are camping in the mountains or enjoying the beach, the tent carries the risk that someone can listen to you. Also the tent is a small enclosed environment to strongly feel your breath and to concentrate heat. These are the ingredients you need to raise his excitement and pull down the pants zipper. Now watch the action begin.
- In the office. If your partner has a private office within the company make a surprise visit. Just do it when it’s close to the time to leave or at lunchtime. Try and find that moment when there are few people and when he least expects it.
- Somewhere outdoors. There are several options you have. One example being in the mountains when you find a secluded place. You attack him as if you were hunting an animal, but in this case it’s your partner. You can be standing or just take him onto the ground and there it all begins.
- In the restroom. Many places today have a family restroom for parents with kids. They are large and private. You know what to do next, that’s right, this bathroom is occupied.
- In the kitchen. We are not saying to just go to the kitchen to do it as something planned. The idea is when he is doing his daily routine like make coffee, washing the dishes, or preparing a meal. We initiate sexual contact and the pleasure will be different. I promise you he will never look at the kitchen in the same way.
- In the elevator. Hit the stop button between floors or just find an elevator that is rarely used. Be aware though, many elevators have cameras and you don’t want to have eyes stuck on you and your couple when the doors are open. But in this scenario, the risk will amplify the excitement.
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