Oral masturbation is not what you are looking for. Sometimes, due to the lack of information, ignorance about the subject, fear of not measuring up with your partner, and even false precepts many people believe that oral sex is just opening your mouth and letting the man insert his penis.
This perception is wrong and therefore we are going to clarify some concepts. We are going to explain why to say no to oral masturbation and to say yes to oral sex.
There are different types of oral sex and two for men in particular. One of them is fellatio. This is when the man receives pleasure in a passive way and their partner is in control making their movements in an active manner. The other practice is referred to as irrumatio. This is the practice by which the man actively thrusts his penis into the mouth of his partner. The partner remains passive while the man makes every move that gives him pleasure. His partner does nothing in this practice, their mouth is simply a pleasure hole, it sounds rude and it is. Therefore, we at The Oral Sex Academy also refer to irrumatio as humiliation.
We say no to oral masturbation because we know that it is always better to give pleasure to your partner through techniques, fondling, and being playful with him. This does not include remaining as a statue with an open mouth.
Just as we expect more from them to reach our orgasm, they also expect more of us down there. You must say no to oral masturbation. Say no to only moving the head back and forth or waiting for him to take a control. You need to have the control all of the time during oral sex.
The man by your side expects action, seduction, and creativity from you. A daring woman who plays with her tongue and mouth when she performs oral sex. Men avoid relationships where they always take the initiative, where they have to do it all. They expect more because they love receiving pleasure and that is why they want it all.
Oral sex involves your hands, mouth, tongue, and teeth, which you should pay attention to because you do not want to hurt his penis.
You must venture to play with your tongue and your saliva. Play with different tastes and smells. Incorporate all of your senses centering them around fellatio. Put chocolate syrup over his penis. Try strawberry or any flavor you prefer and lick it like you were enjoying an ice cream. Seduce him incorporating what he likes and for that you have to do your homework. Ask questions and pay attention to every encounter you have with him. Notice what provokes and excites him. You have to know his erogenous zones so that you can stimulate them.
If the man wants to masturbate he can do it himself at anytime. However, when he is looking for you, he is expecting a totally different experience. You must be sexually active and that does not mean you are just having a lot of sex. We’re talking about not being like a mannequin. If you do nothing, he will get bored and possibly end the relationship. There aren’t many men who will stay committed to someone like that.
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