Oral sex by itself is glorious and delicious but combining oral sex positions, exciting places, and toys will bump it to the next level. This practice is more than contact with mouth and genitalia is more like art. To create good art you must be a perfectionist and an oral sex lover. Being able to turn your partner on and give some pleasure and most important being able to master it, is the best feeling ever. Understanding that this is a practice of trust and fun is the first step. As I always suggest consensual and safe sex is a must.
Usually, oral sex is the doorway for intercourse and most people don’t appreciate it, making it a short and simple act. Boring! It should be as pleasant and satisfying as intercourse. To make it more attractive and fun you should get creative, get into some good sexy positions, add toys and do it in “prohibit places”.
69 Overrated ?
As I was trying to do some extra research on sex position surprisingly I did not find much information or suggestion for the famous 69 sex position. So I started wondering if my boyfriend is the last guy on earth that loves 69. It’s funny because as I did my search I found so much hate out there I guess I’m not alone.
Here is an image I found on girls ask guys
I definitely think it’s a little uncomfortable if I’m on top and it takes so much effort to keep myself turned on. My arms get tired plus I feel like I need both hands to show off my skills. If I’m on the bottom it’s a little hard to reach the full package and guess who’s not getting full pleasure? Yup the guy that loves 69 more than brunch, and that’s a lot.
He just claims that its a total turn on to give and receive pleasure at the same time. He’s right but I do not mind taking turns sorry 69 but this has to change. There are so many positions out there that will blow your mind and hopefully my boyfriends too.
So you can probably suspect by now that my inspiration for this blog has nothing to do with my frustration with 69 (my sarcastic tone).
It’s a sex position where both are facing each other at opposite ends creating access and clear view of each other’s genital areas.
Giving mutual masturbation and mutual oral sex is what makes this sex position so famous.
Mind-blowing Oral Sex Positions
All images and videos are extracted from sex info 101. They have an awesome blog about oral sex positions, check it out!
Let’s take 69 to a new level
Here are some alternative for the famous 69
• 69 Sideways
This is a small twist for the 69 but it definitely looks more comfortable, no one has to worry about gravity.
• 69 Kneeling Or Standing
Guys put those muscles to work and ladies grab on tight. Note that if your balance and resistance is not the best, practice position first before trying to perform oral sex. If this is A first time I recommend you try kneeling first and as you master it do the standing.
This one also requires some balance. This can definitely be very exciting if an effort is put into it.
The Throat Swab
Ladies and gentlemen you are going to love this one. It’s very easy and ladies your hands are free, you decide what you want to do with them give him some extra love or touch yourself meanwhile. Doing both at the same time is the goal to maximize this great position.
I must admit this is not a position for everyone. If you are not into the yoga type of positions you can keep on scrolling down, I won’t judge. I Think this is a perfect position if you are into yoga and super flexible. Make your foreplay part of your spiritual life. Now that is a sex life goal.
The Butler or Doggie goes oral
Ladies lean forward and enjoy the butler ride. Guys you can’t ask for a better perfect view. You can use one hand to grab onto her and use your other hand to help yourself. Now ladies if trying to maintain balance is a little difficult go on all fours. Doggie goes oral is basically the same position but less effort is put into your balance.
Riding in The North
My favorite position ever. Now, ladies, this is all about you here ride it however you prefer. Going at your own speed, at your own rhythm is just glorious. I call it the freeway. Guys don’t feel left out your mouth plays an important role here so keep it up.
This is a little bit more traditional cunnilingus position but it never fails to get the job done. It also allows some free movements on your hips sou you can help him hit the right spot.
On your mark, stretch, go! This is pretty awesome one, it’s all you can eat. Perfect views if you are doing your daily stretching.
What can I say, sex intends to keep us healthy. This is probably the ultimate 69 upgrade. Remember you should try new thing only if you guys are feeling comfortable. I’m sure that if this is not your favorite you will find one here if you haven’t already.
We can definitely get very creative with this traditional fellatio position. Twist it to the sides, make him sit a little bit up and use hands and other parts of the body like your breast to add more sensations.
The usual to go, please. Yes, take it on the go or very exciting places.
Get Out of the Bed
Accept the challenge of chasing excitement, spontaneity, and adrenalin in a moment of pleasure. Be the one in the relationship to surprise your partner with free spirit oral sex.
There is nothing more exciting and breathtaking that receiving oral sex in places and moments that are not expected.
Ladies, tag your it. It’s way easier to perform oral sex on a man in a car so manifest the pleasure. Make sure it’s a street with low traffic or maybe on the highway where cars are speeding, my preference is at night since the daylight makes it more obvious but if that excites you go for it.
His Or Your Parents House
If you guys are doing a family visit and have the chance to be alone for a few seconds go down. A very exciting time is when everyone is dining. Send a text to meet in the bathroom it doesn’t have to be a long escape is just a quick heart rate raise.
If you guys are camping or in a quite park go in between the bushes this is going to be really fun and exciting. Watch out for police and mosquitos :p
Give your partner a random visit to their office, make sure to lock the door and pull those pants down you guys might end up in a quickie
Patio or balcony
You don’t have to go too far, your balcony or patio is a perfect place to loosen up a little to the idea of random places. If you have a transit view it’s best that you do it at night with lights off.
Spicing It Up With Toys
Toys are always a plus when it comes to sex and excitement. Sometimes is hard to approach your partner with them at the right time. But there is no better time than oral sex.
Here is a list of perfect toys to include into your oral sex moments
Vibrating Gold Egg
Fresh by Leaf
Ida by LeLo
Share Your Story
Don’t be shy share an anecdote of your favorite position, toys, and places. Tell us where and how you like to practice oral sex. You can be the inspiration for my next blog, I’m so excited to read and share your story with all of these sexually open souls. Remember you can always call us, email us or publish it on a comment.
Let’s Talk About Sex, Baby! The Dos & Don’ts of Effective Sexual Communication
Most people know that one of the best ways to have a great sexual relationship with their partner is the ability to communicate sexual needs and wants with him or her. However, for many that sounds great, but they do not know how to make that happen. The experts in oral sex education at Oral Sex Academy offer some tips for couples looking to effectively convey their sexual desires in and outside of the bedroom.
Do Let Your Partner Know When it Feels Good in a Physical Way
In a 2012 study done by The Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, nonverbal communication helps bridge the gap between sexual self-esteem and satisfaction in ways that verbal communication cannot. Why is this? Because, frankly, telling your partner it just isn’t working can put quite a damper on a fun romp in between the sheets. If you require more pressure, pull your partner’s hands down harder. If your partner is doing something that is working, then moan to let him or her know. Shouting “Good job, buddy!” can be a little jarring. However, don’t be afraid to let your partner know when it is working and when it isn’t. No one likes to waste their time, even while having sex.
Don’t Ask if He or She Came Yet
In a perfect world, sex ends with both partners having that wonderful orgasm at the same time. We can thank the movies for that fallacy! While an orgasm is a wonderful thing, reducing the whole act of sex as only being successful if ending with the big O adds pressure to what should be a fun and pleasurable experience. Even worse? Asking him or her if they are close to having an orgasm when it is sometimes difficult to achieve one. So, stop asking about the orgasm! While nice, it is not the endgame for a successful sexual experience.
Do Let Your Hands Guide the Way
Oh, the power that hands yield. One of the most effective ways to show your partner the best way to do something is to place your hand on the back of his or hers to work that magic. You can show him or her how hard or soft you like it there or how fast or slow. Also, don’t be afraid to ask your partner to show you what he is she prefers. You may be surprised that you have been “doing it wrong.”
Don’t Say “Yuck” or “That is Gross”
When a couple truly opens up and allows their partner to hear their sexual fantasies, sometimes those fantasies can be, oh how to say it…WEIRD! Revealing one’s innermost sexual fantasies can be terrifying, and hearing a partner’s response that what they are listening to is gross or strange is a great way to shut down communication. How about telling your partner that you are not comfortable performing that, but then offering an alternative you are comfortable with? Also, if your partner is doing something to you before or while having sex that you don’t like, like shoving his or her tongue in and out of your ear, don’t yell “DISGUSTING!” Instead, move your lover’s tongue to where you’d prefer it to be.
Do Talk Dirty
Dirty talk with a partner causes many to feel nervous for a variety of reasons, such as fearing they will sound silly. Some may have no idea what to say, or they are afraid that talking dirty means sounding like a porn star. However, you don’t have to settle for quiet sex! If talking dirty is a big step for you, then start small, such as telling your partner how good it feels when he or she does a certain something and build from there as your confidence grows. And while quiet sex isn’t necessarily a bad thing, dirty talk can be a potent device. It can help you and your partner stay in the moment and develop your communication skills even further, all the while helping you both stay even more turned on.
Don’t Feel Bad About Saying “No”
So, you and your partner are on that fun road of communicating sexually, sharing needs, wants, and fantasies. When couples are able to truly open up, there may be some things you hear that you just do not want to do. Saying “no” is perfectly acceptable. Just because one partner got to that “no holds barred” place doesn’t mean the other has to fulfill a certain desire. You should ALWAYS feel comfortable telling your partner no. End of discussion. However, remember our earlier advice to not act like what you hear is disgusting!
Do Remain Present
Outside of the bedroom, if your partner starts opening up about his or her sexual desires and wants, put away the phone and other distractions, and LISTEN! Your partner needs to feel comfortable sharing such personal information, and if he or she sees you checking your phone or constantly looking at the TV, that is the best way to shut down the two-way street of communication and sexual activity.
Staying present also involves not putting your partner on the defensive, and that starts with knowing how to word sentences. Be sure to start sentences with “I.” Don’t say “You don’t know how to make me have an orgasm.” Instead, say “I sometimes have a hard time having an orgasm, and I think that spending more time on oral sex would help me get there.”
In the bedroom, if your partner feels as though you are distracted and constantly looking at the clock, he or she could feel rushed, which is a great mood killer. If you cannot take your time, then get what you need to get done, and rock his or her world later.
Don’t Forget Sex is Fun
At the end of the day, sex needs to be viewed not as a chore but as something fun to do with your partner. Study after study proves that sexual communication absolutely enhances sexual satisfaction between lovers. If sex starts to feel as monotonous as dusting the house, then it is time to open up those lines of communication with your partner!
The sex experts at Oral Sex Academy understand the importance of a healthy sex life to a couple’s longevity. Feel free to browse our blogs for even more sex tips, or look into our line of oral sex education videos to really help spice up your sex life. The happy couple is the proactive couple!
7 Incredible Dating Tips For Women
Quality dating tips for women are hard to come across sometimes. Many women don’t realize that there are some secrets to dating that will definitely increase their chances at having a quality experience and to improve their chances for a second date.
Having a great outlook on life is crucial. Nobody wants to be with a downer. Being confident and showing that you are comfortable with yourself is extremely attractive to men. Show them that you have goals over the next 5 years of your life. Let them know you have quality ideas of how your time on Earth should be spent. Being positive is inspiring and will always be a quality attribute that people are looking for.
Be Open Minded
Don’t just assume that your date is going to take you to the most expensive restaurant. Maybe he is going to show you his favorite “hole in the wall”. Don’t be so quick to judge the experience before you allow yourself to have fun with it. He might be just testing you to see how you would react and to see if you are willing to let loose.
Part of the point of dating is to meet new people and to get to know that person. So whether you are meeting someone online or are being set up by your friends don’t fish for details about that person until you actually meet them, you might be shooting yourself in the foot. You don’t want to go out on a date with a predisposition about the other person. Allow the moment to happen on it’s own and be true to yourself in the process.
Always Leave Your Baggage At The Door
Don’t talk about your exes or compare them to the new guy on a first date. It’s a genuine turn off to all men to hear the name of your past experiences. You end up sending out a message that you are not totally over the other person when they are brought into the conversation. Most of the time men will ultimately decide to move on and find somebody else if they think you are still emotionally attached to your prior relationships.
Being yourself is the best way to ensure that the guy is meeting you and not your representative. Don’t give false impressions because if you want any relationship to have a chance at success then it is important that they are getting to know the real you and not some fantasy, super amazing, unrealistic version of yourself. If the relationship continues to blossom then it is only a matter of time before they start to see who you really are so why play games that usually only end up in disappointment. Also be direct and don’t assume that men always understand hidden messages. Men generally don’t read between the lines very well so be specific and clear to avoid any unnecessary stress for yourself.
The only way you’re going to get to know someone is if you ask them questions about who they are and how they think. Don’t let them do all of the talking though. The conversation ideally should be mutual and should involve both parties equally. And if you are someone who loves to talk, don’t spend the whole time talking about yourself because that is almost always a turnoff for anybody. Make sure you are showing some interest in finding out more about the other person.
Don’t Be Catty
Nothing says “You don’t want to be with me!” more than when you are out on a first date making your first impression and you decide to start putting other females down around you. “I can’t believe she thinks that nobody would notice that her purse is a knock off!” or “Didn’t somebody tell her to look in the mirror before she went out in public today?” Nobody likes to be around someone who thinks that they are better than everybody else. It’s one thing to be confident and maybe even a little bit arrogant, but to just judge other people because maybe you don’t agree with their fashion choice is a total red flag. Being humble is a virtue that most people look for in others. Be uplifting, it’s not about bringing others down.
Meeting new people usually falls somewhere between awkward and extremely awkward. Anything you can do to minimize the awkwardness and move towards amazing is a step in the right direction and possibly another date.
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Most men are closed minded to the idea of experimenting with the prostate gland for excitement. For sooooo many, the idea of stimulating this particular organ is off limits, it is not even a topic for discussion. Simply enough, it is considered a forbidden zone.
Most heterosexual man have issues with the use of the prostate for fear of being considered homosexual. However, men who have no such barriers are more adventurous and will not have any existential conflict. These are the kind of men who might truly get to experience an orgasm like no other.
How to get your man to be comfortable with his prostate being explored.
A first timer should get to know the area and the feelings associated with a self-examination in the bathroom. It is recommended to move slowly and carefully. Use plenty of lubricant for this area. Nobody should ever force penetration into the anus because it can cause severe tearing. Take into consideration that the anus should be completely relaxed. Once the area is ready, carefully massage inside the anus and find the prostate gland. Explore the different sensations that can be created. Allow your partner to get comfortable with themselves first and then they will be ready to share with you.
Now it’s your turn. Gradually prepare your partner’s area before penetration. First, you have to stimulate the anus with circular movements on the outside. Do not immediately introduce the finger. When the anus has relaxed and expanded by stimulation then you can introduce penetration. It is recommended to use a condom on your finger. Once your partner has become relaxed with you inside of them you can start to introduce oral sexual stimulation simultaneously. These are two of the most sensitive and erogenous zones your partner possesses. What a thrill!
Another way to stimulate the area is through a technique known as a “rim job” or “black kiss”.
Stimulate the anus by passing the tongue and lips over the area. Keep in mind that any penetration should only happen after previous excitation to relax the anus.
“Why would I want to stimulate his prostate?”
Simple really, the prostate produces the majority of the liquid found in ejaculation. With just the right amount of stimulation from touch, ejaculation can be generated without even touching the penis.
The anus is an area with multiple nerve endings and is highly sensitive to touch. As a result, those who have experienced proper stimulation of the prostate mention the pleasure of reaching multiple orgasms.
A man must take away the prejudices that he may have about this subject and explore his body. Men will have to allow their partner to explore it with them, but if it becomes too difficult and they become embarrassed or experience feelings of guilt then nobody is going to enjoy sex. At this point, just put it all aside and don’t worry because there are many other areas that can erupt your erogenous zones. Remember, the idea is never to force someone to do something that makes them feel uncomfortable. However, exploring these zones never eliminates or diminishes their manhood.
At www.oralsexacademy.com we address and educate on these issues. We definitely provide you with some tips to try in order to free your partner so they feel comfortable in exploring the possibilities.
Be a Tigress! Believe it or not, men love women who surprise them. Men admire a woman who can be so versatile that she can transform from a lady in public to a sexy, passionate Tigress in private.
Being a lady has nothing to do with casting aside her carnal instinct that can be carried away by a moment of passion or desire. In fact, even in unconventional places, if only for a moment, her inner Tigress can show. She can be daring, but discrete. For example ladies, in your daily office meetings you can simply pass your hand over his erogenous zone. Fake a small slip allowing each other to touch without anyone noticing. That’s being bold.
When making sexual fantasies come true the difference lies in the willingness factor. You don’t have to do a lot, but if you do it with disgust it won’t be pleasant. A man wants to feel that blending to demonstrate security in doing it. In a few words, he wants a woman who enjoys it as much as him.
When we talk about what men expect or if they use the phrase “I want you to let loose in bed!”, what they are begging for is:
- A woman who takes the initiative. Do not allow him to always be the only one who initiates contact.
- Someone who shows security and control of what she does in bed.
- A person that wants to try new positions. One who tries to incorporate toys or just play around with him.
- One who wears provocative lingerie and seduces him, not only just wearing it, but also incorporating other details. An erotic dance, a striptease, etc… The difference is in how she wears it.
- A partner who enjoys the moment and he can see it in her gestures, moans, positions, and that is something that will always stimulate him further.
- A woman who lets go of the embarrassment and puts her shyness aside. These are not the moments to show off her insecurities.
- Someone to be daring, take the torch and run with it, all men are waiting to see what women will do to surprise them.
Being a lady involves a number of qualities that are not solely related to appearance. It’s more about attitude and how she portrays it day by day.
- A lady is the epitome of grace and femininity. She draws stares and demands respect. She is admired by other women who want to be like her.
- A lady does not care about others’ behavior, she focuses on her performance given the circumstances. She does not make her partner feel inferior in public.
- She is never afraid to ask for help in tasks that require some masculinity, even if she can do it by herself. Of course she always remembers not to take it too far because men, unfortunately, will get tired of a woman who does nothing.
- A lady knows what is happening around her, she keeps up with the current events in the world.
- She is always glamorous and we’re not talking about always dressing up elegant, but rather that she just takes care of the little details (clothes, hair, and makeup).
- Bad words and rude gestures are never necessary since there are so many other ways to express what she feels.
- Flirting is a part of every woman, but a lady knows the limits and respects her partner. She presents him in public, giving him his stature before other men and driving away insecurities.
- A lady is smart and astute. She always has the right words of encouragement for others.
- Her manners will never fail. She always knows how to treat each person with courtesy and respect.
A woman is a combined set of qualities, like the two sides of a coin. She maintains pleasure and full enjoyment with her partner in bed as well as in public. Men want a bold and daring woman behind closed doors. Sign in to www.oralsexacademy.com and learn how to benefit from your Tigress charms in the bedroom. You will have your partner eating out of the palm of your hand and begging for more.
What is oral sex (OS)?
Also known as fellatio, oral sex involves the stimulation of a partner’s sexual organs with the mouth, lips or tongue and could involve sucking or licking.
The Do’s and Don’ts of oral sex
Men are known to prefer fellatio being performed on them over women. They have preferences in how they want oral sex and they loathe it when they get a women who can’t fulfill their desire. Here are a few do’s and don’ts when going down on a man…….
Women should use moderate grips while performing oral sex on men. The grip should never be too tight or too soft on the male genitalia. Women should consider their partner’s organ’s length, width, and lack of or excess skin. They should apply the pressure their partner desires to be able to fully satisfy them sexually using oral sex. Women should also communicate with their partner to know their preferences when it comes to fellatio.
Women should know how to use their teeth when performing oral sex. Teeth should be avoided as much as possible because they can create discomfort, pain, and even injuries in severe cases. Women who bite can also be a big turn off. Their partners may become uncomfortable and fail to trust them in the exercise all together.
Women who fake enjoying fellatio with men just to please them may also be a big turn off. Men enjoy knowing that women are into the sexual activities they are performing as much as them. Women should try to include eye contact and sexy noises to show their interest and enjoyment in performing fellatio with their men. This will always make the men more aroused and increase the enjoyment and sexual pleasure.
Not being experimental
Men fancy sexually experimental women. They therefore love women who communicate and experiment with new things during fellatio.
Men like women who take their time to arouse them. Women who rush over things may find their men losing interest in having oral sex with them in the future due to their lack of involvement.
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All men dream of having oral sex performed on them!
Some men can be timid, but they still want it none the less. Oral sex can be a life changing experience and it’s always better when performed by someone who’s not shy. So, let yourself go! Do some research. Learn to overcome your insecurities about performing fellatio. Be fearless and enjoy the moment. Never worry about what someone else thinks, it’s your life and you only get one chance to live it! So, live it to the fullest.
How do I overcome my uncertainty?
Never be afraid to seek out the answers! Human development and growth depends on exploration and discovery. Nobody is born with all of the answers to every question. You need to realize that every man is different, but you can apply similar techniques to all of them. Knowledge and understanding will automatically increase your awareness and confidence. The best part is, once you have obtained the knowledge you then get to practice, practice, practice! Oral sex is not just about using your lips or your tongue. You can use your whole body, doing it in your own way, whatever both of you like. Knowing his anatomy and yours is very important in order to know the different things that you can do with him.
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Oral Sex Taboos
Throughout the years, women have always lived with taboos related to sex, culture, age, and even socioeconomic status. Many of these topics have become so taboo that people are afraid to talk about it in public. And those who do, create a stigma around them that doesn’t necessarily have to do with their values. This really is a subject that should be talked about. It’s related to our body and what we experience with our partners in private. So we invite you to talk about sex in a natural way with your partner, your family, or your friends. Leave aside your shame because there is no logical reason to keep sex a secret. Without sex there would be no human race, so in essence, everybody does it. You are not alone!
When we talk about sexuality, there are several ways to satisfy a sexually active man. And one of those ways is through oral sex.
For many people it is a topic that is an open discussion and for many others it is just awkward and uncomfortable. However, it all depends on the rapport we have with our confidants. The idea behind being sexual is achieving satisfaction and pleasure for both. A little of what are we going to discuss is that oral sex is more than just sucking a penis. It is an art that we can compare with making love, painting a beautiful landscape, or enjoying a delicious meal. The experience floods our senses. Quality sexual encounters can take us out of this world for a moment and make us see the stars. Sex can send our whole body into trembles and quivers from sensory overload.
Oral sex is a whole experience by itself depending on how it is performed. It involves new factors and your other senses will be awaken. Can you imagine being able to perform it so that you satisfy your partner not only at that moment, but also keep him thinking of you? You can do that, it doesn’t matter if it’s the first time or not. Just remember, every time you do it can be a whole new experience for both, and there is always a new secret to learn in the art of seduction when it comes to sex.
Don’t hesitate, seek to satisfy your concerns, overcome your fears and fully enjoy sex with your partner. Start by making a list of those questions that you may have like: “How can I touch it?”,”How do I start?”, “How long do I have to do it for?”, “Would you like it if I take the initiative?”. All of this is important without taking for granted what you like or dislike, remember it has to be a balance between you both. Otherwise you won’t reach your target which is complete sexual satisfaction for you and your partner.
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Does your partner enjoy the way you are performing oral sex?
Don’t worry because if you get him to the finish, chances are he likes it. However, the experience can be so much more. You can become a true master of control, seduction, and desire with the proper training. Satisfying him is your goal and we will teach you everything you need to know to be the best he’s ever had. When performing oral sex we get an immediate response our partner’s body. His heart rate accelerates and his facial expressions change. Words are not needed. We can see what he’s feeling through his reactions. When his gestures and his breathing change it drives us crazy. Now imagine that moment when you succumb to pleasure. That moment when both bodies are synchronized and you let the desire overtake you. We will show you how to get there every time. You will have his toes curling and he will be making those “oohs” and “aahs ” that all women want to hear and provoke.
We’ve got what you’re looking for to give him the best oral sex of his life.
It all depends on your knowledge and skills to get him to point of those body reactions. Education and training will make the difference. So what would you like to know? Have you made a decision? Are you prepared for a change in your life? Don’t over think it, get to work and get the information you need and want so you can become that woman your partner so desperately desires.
Knowing and using your own body and your anatomy is essential. You don’t have to ask him directly what he wants from you. It defeats the purpose. The point is to show him the goddess you are and to impress him when you are performing oral sex. Everyone is different and every person has a very personal touch. So your personal performance is very important. Many people like to think that reading a book or an article is enough but it isn’t. When you have proper guidance by an expert you lose all insecurities and gain power and confidence. They give you all of the answers you need and with that you leave shame aside. You’re able to perform so naturally. Then you get to hear words like “I loved that!” and “I didn’t know you could do that so well!”. That gives you the empowerment and the courage to feel comfortable getting into the world of seduction. Isn’t that what you’ve been looking for? Being the best for him because that’s an important complement in a relationship.
Why is it important to research and seek guidance from experts?
It’s to open the doors in your mind and lead to the peak of pleasure. Through knowledge and understanding you can leave aside all of the prejudice that disconnects you from your sensuality and femininity. Skipping oral sex is not an option. Why would you want to? What we need to do is openly explore yourself and your body. All men enjoy oral sex. Learn the techniques from the best of the best and become the best. Inexperience and lack of skill in the bedroom is awkward and dissatisfying. Let us be there for you to unlock your inner passion and deliver you the knowledge you need to achieve the greatest sexual encounters every time. Login to www.oralsexacademy.com to get started!
Bondage is the practice of domination and submission through the use of restraints. For example, using ties erotically on different parts of the body such as blindfolding, handcuffing, tying the ankles or hands, etc… I am going to share some of my personal experience and discuss how to apply bondage during fellatio.
To my surprise, I must confess that I loved it. I found complete trust with my partner and I dared to experiment. In doing so, I discovered that I am much attuned to it because I enjoy feeling dominated.
He began to tie my hands and I could see how even more excited he was to see me. Taking the time to immobilize my body and build up my excitement with sweet sensations of anticipation and surprise. Once I was in submission, he began to lick all over. The feeling was indescribable. I was feeling more pleasure and excitement than when I have my hands free. And when he approached to my erogenous zone, I exploded with desire. Then he put a blindfold over my eyes and for a moment I felt nervous. I wanted to free myself! And although it seemed contradictory, I was excited to try even more. So I just let myself be consumed by all of those feelings that I had not experienced before. I let them run rampant through my body.
The freedom that I felt with the collaboration of sensations, emotions, and excitement was virtually indescribable.
The practice of bondage is not only for us, but also for men to enjoy based on the role they decide to take. If he is the master, seeing his partner experience all of that desire and pleasure fascinated him. Now, when he was submissive, his mind was expanded as I included fellatio to exalt his fire and desire.
Here are some tips and tricks to make your practice of bondage create a difference in him when you perform fellatio.
- First select what instrument you’re going to use to tie him up with. You can use whatever he is comfortable with. It all just depends on your imagination. Some common options are handcuffs, neckties, socks, belts, tape, rope, a piece of fabric, or even your underwear. Keep within your reach, but out of his sight the toys, feathers, whips etc… or other things that you’re going to use.
- Have on hand some round tipped scissors in case of an emergency. Or just use them as part of the experience at the end.
- Start by seducing him using only his sense of sight. Provoke him with your body. Use the lingerie he likes to see in you or try something new. Let him only see and admire you, his imagination will run crazy. More so then if you were just naked and do not let him touch you.
- Now exploit the second sense, touch. You are in full control so he only gets to feel what you allow. Play with it and tease a little. Let him slightly feel your skin and your curves. While you pass over you’re immobilizing him. Start with his hands. Give him more teasing to know that he felt you and now he can’t. Then do it with his ankles spreading his legs.
- Now you got him where you want him. Don’t forget to maintain control, now play…
- You know his erogenous zones, it is time to activate and stimulate them.
- Find your toys and start using them with him. Play with textures and objects of different temperatures such as ice, metal, syrups, feathers, leather. Whatever you like. Now you should start to lick him, always on his body. Maintain contact.
- Go all over his body, but don’t start performing fellatio just yet. The main dish is his penis and you have to leave that for last. Incorporate it gradually. Begins by playing and teasing near his genitals. You can even pass your tongue around it but don’t put it in your mouth. This will increase his excitement level and he will want it badly. He will be begging at this point. Not necessarily with words, but with his body and gestures.
- When you get him to that point where he explodes with desire because your mouth makes direct contact and without interruption, then you begin fellatio.
The ties can be removed after you have enjoyed the moment. Use the scissors or leave them loose so that he can undo them himself without difficulty.
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