Oral sex by itself is glorious and delicious but combining oral sex positions, exciting places, and toys will bump it to the next level. This practice is more than contact with mouth and genitalia is more like art. To create good art you must be a perfectionist and an oral sex lover. Being able to turn your partner on and give some pleasure and most important being able to master it, is the best feeling ever. Understanding that this is a practice of trust and fun is the first step. As I always suggest consensual and safe sex is a must.
Usually, oral sex is the doorway for intercourse and most people don’t appreciate it, making it a short and simple act. Boring! It should be as pleasant and satisfying as intercourse. To make it more attractive and fun you should get creative, get into some good sexy positions, add toys and do it in “prohibit places”.
69 Overrated ?
As I was trying to do some extra research on sex position surprisingly I did not find much information or suggestion for the famous 69 sex position. So I started wondering if my boyfriend is the last guy on earth that loves 69. It’s funny because as I did my search I found so much hate out there I guess I’m not alone.
Here is an image I found on girls ask guys
I definitely think it’s a little uncomfortable if I’m on top and it takes so much effort to keep myself turned on. My arms get tired plus I feel like I need both hands to show off my skills. If I’m on the bottom it’s a little hard to reach the full package and guess who’s not getting full pleasure? Yup the guy that loves 69 more than brunch, and that’s a lot.
He just claims that its a total turn on to give and receive pleasure at the same time. He’s right but I do not mind taking turns sorry 69 but this has to change. There are so many positions out there that will blow your mind and hopefully my boyfriends too.
So you can probably suspect by now that my inspiration for this blog has nothing to do with my frustration with 69 (my sarcastic tone).
It’s a sex position where both are facing each other at opposite ends creating access and clear view of each other’s genital areas.
Giving mutual masturbation and mutual oral sex is what makes this sex position so famous.
Mind-blowing Oral Sex Positions
All images and videos are extracted from sex info 101. They have an awesome blog about oral sex positions, check it out!
Let’s take 69 to a new level
Here are some alternative for the famous 69
• 69 Sideways
This is a small twist for the 69 but it definitely looks more comfortable, no one has to worry about gravity.
• 69 Kneeling Or Standing
Guys put those muscles to work and ladies grab on tight. Note that if your balance and resistance is not the best, practice position first before trying to perform oral sex. If this is A first time I recommend you try kneeling first and as you master it do the standing.
This one also requires some balance. This can definitely be very exciting if an effort is put into it.
The Throat Swab
Ladies and gentlemen you are going to love this one. It’s very easy and ladies your hands are free, you decide what you want to do with them give him some extra love or touch yourself meanwhile. Doing both at the same time is the goal to maximize this great position.
I must admit this is not a position for everyone. If you are not into the yoga type of positions you can keep on scrolling down, I won’t judge. I Think this is a perfect position if you are into yoga and super flexible. Make your foreplay part of your spiritual life. Now that is a sex life goal.
The Butler or Doggie goes oral
Ladies lean forward and enjoy the butler ride. Guys you can’t ask for a better perfect view. You can use one hand to grab onto her and use your other hand to help yourself. Now ladies if trying to maintain balance is a little difficult go on all fours. Doggie goes oral is basically the same position but less effort is put into your balance.
Riding in The North
My favorite position ever. Now, ladies, this is all about you here ride it however you prefer. Going at your own speed, at your own rhythm is just glorious. I call it the freeway. Guys don’t feel left out your mouth plays an important role here so keep it up.
This is a little bit more traditional cunnilingus position but it never fails to get the job done. It also allows some free movements on your hips sou you can help him hit the right spot.
On your mark, stretch, go! This is pretty awesome one, it’s all you can eat. Perfect views if you are doing your daily stretching.
What can I say, sex intends to keep us healthy. This is probably the ultimate 69 upgrade. Remember you should try new thing only if you guys are feeling comfortable. I’m sure that if this is not your favorite you will find one here if you haven’t already.
We can definitely get very creative with this traditional fellatio position. Twist it to the sides, make him sit a little bit up and use hands and other parts of the body like your breast to add more sensations.
The usual to go, please. Yes, take it on the go or very exciting places.
Get Out of the Bed
Accept the challenge of chasing excitement, spontaneity, and adrenalin in a moment of pleasure. Be the one in the relationship to surprise your partner with free spirit oral sex.
There is nothing more exciting and breathtaking that receiving oral sex in places and moments that are not expected.
Ladies, tag your it. It’s way easier to perform oral sex on a man in a car so manifest the pleasure. Make sure it’s a street with low traffic or maybe on the highway where cars are speeding, my preference is at night since the daylight makes it more obvious but if that excites you go for it.
His Or Your Parents House
If you guys are doing a family visit and have the chance to be alone for a few seconds go down. A very exciting time is when everyone is dining. Send a text to meet in the bathroom it doesn’t have to be a long escape is just a quick heart rate raise.
If you guys are camping or in a quite park go in between the bushes this is going to be really fun and exciting. Watch out for police and mosquitos :p
Give your partner a random visit to their office, make sure to lock the door and pull those pants down you guys might end up in a quickie
Patio or balcony
You don’t have to go too far, your balcony or patio is a perfect place to loosen up a little to the idea of random places. If you have a transit view it’s best that you do it at night with lights off.
Spicing It Up With Toys
Toys are always a plus when it comes to sex and excitement. Sometimes is hard to approach your partner with them at the right time. But there is no better time than oral sex.
Here is a list of perfect toys to include into your oral sex moments
Vibrating Gold Egg
Fresh by Leaf
Ida by LeLo
Share Your Story
Don’t be shy share an anecdote of your favorite position, toys, and places. Tell us where and how you like to practice oral sex. You can be the inspiration for my next blog, I’m so excited to read and share your story with all of these sexually open souls. Remember you can always call us, email us or publish it on a comment.
Watching porn can affect the “reward” that our brain receives in a real sexual relationship.
Unless you’re watching porn only for educational purposes (positions, techniques, etc…) men, after viewing too much pornography, tend to have very high expectations from their partners. They have trouble considering the difficulty their partner may have reenacting the same performance. For a woman’s case, just imagine the perfect penis. Now if all women went around believing that all men have equally big, thick, monstrous, super members just like the actors generally have then it would simply be disappointing for them when they discovered that most men are generally not as well endowed.
Men, on the other hand, need to be aware that not everything they see in the movies can be performed with their partners. For instance, different moves can be painful. Oral ability is also different for everyone. The body’s elasticity for some positions may not be possible. And don’t forget that some things are just considered rude in real life situations.
Men and women need to remember that they don’t necessarily possess the same strength, agility, flexibility, and endurance as the actors.
Most women are not physically prepared for everything the actresses may do. This includes long periods of penetration because after a while it becomes painful. For the actresses, the vaginal muscle is constantly exercising and therefore they do not experience many of the same problems. Another example of a reality check, men love to finish in the woman’s face because they have seen it in the movies so many times. They may not realize it, but unless their partner is begging for it, there is a pretty high chance that she may not really like to get a shot in the face. For many, it is unpleasant and degrading. So men, unless you know for sure she wants it, maybe you should find another place to unload.
Moans: sometimes they are fake and sometimes not. We cannot generalize that all women moan naturally like they do in porn.
There are many factors that are seen in the final version of a porn film that are influenced by professional coaches and directors. Noises are one of them. Directors tell the actors what they should do. They tell the actors what positions to take to not be hurt. They also give them guidelines to strengthen every muscle with exercises involving arms, neck, and legs. This generally helps with the overall flexibility of the whole body for different positions.
Men and women should study while watching porn. Try to take notes of techniques, positions, and movements that can be incorporated. Just don’t expect everything to work.
It is true that after spending too much time watching porn, our brain thinks that everything it witnesses can be done. However, the brain does not know to differentiate the limits that can be reached. For that reason, many men expect much more than they may receive thus affecting the reward and then they get frustrated. Sometimes it is difficult to see otherwise. Our subconscious gets fed full of the images and movements. Then it fantasizes about each of them.
The most important thing for a real sexual relationship is to not be affected by pornography. It is important to become aware of what your partner can do with his/her anatomy. Communication is everything. Tell him or her what you saw and liked. And if it is within his/her capabilities without possibly getting hurt they may want to give it a try. Login to www.oralsexacademy.com to learn even more.