Oral sex by itself is glorious and delicious but combining oral sex positions, exciting places, and toys will bump it to the next level. This practice is more than contact with mouth and genitalia is more like art. To create good art you must be a perfectionist and an oral sex lover. Being able to turn your partner on and give some pleasure and most important being able to master it, is the best feeling ever. Understanding that this is a practice of trust and fun is the first step. As I always suggest consensual and safe sex is a must.
Usually, oral sex is the doorway for intercourse and most people don’t appreciate it, making it a short and simple act. Boring! It should be as pleasant and satisfying as intercourse. To make it more attractive and fun you should get creative, get into some good sexy positions, add toys and do it in “prohibit places”.
69 Overrated ?
As I was trying to do some extra research on sex position surprisingly I did not find much information or suggestion for the famous 69 sex position. So I started wondering if my boyfriend is the last guy on earth that loves 69. It’s funny because as I did my search I found so much hate out there I guess I’m not alone.
Here is an image I found on girls ask guys
I definitely think it’s a little uncomfortable if I’m on top and it takes so much effort to keep myself turned on. My arms get tired plus I feel like I need both hands to show off my skills. If I’m on the bottom it’s a little hard to reach the full package and guess who’s not getting full pleasure? Yup the guy that loves 69 more than brunch, and that’s a lot.
He just claims that its a total turn on to give and receive pleasure at the same time. He’s right but I do not mind taking turns sorry 69 but this has to change. There are so many positions out there that will blow your mind and hopefully my boyfriends too.
So you can probably suspect by now that my inspiration for this blog has nothing to do with my frustration with 69 (my sarcastic tone).
It’s a sex position where both are facing each other at opposite ends creating access and clear view of each other’s genital areas.
Giving mutual masturbation and mutual oral sex is what makes this sex position so famous.
Mind-blowing Oral Sex Positions
All images and videos are extracted from sex info 101. They have an awesome blog about oral sex positions, check it out!
Let’s take 69 to a new level
Here are some alternative for the famous 69
• 69 Sideways
This is a small twist for the 69 but it definitely looks more comfortable, no one has to worry about gravity.
• 69 Kneeling Or Standing
Guys put those muscles to work and ladies grab on tight. Note that if your balance and resistance is not the best, practice position first before trying to perform oral sex. If this is A first time I recommend you try kneeling first and as you master it do the standing.
This one also requires some balance. This can definitely be very exciting if an effort is put into it.
The Throat Swab
Ladies and gentlemen you are going to love this one. It’s very easy and ladies your hands are free, you decide what you want to do with them give him some extra love or touch yourself meanwhile. Doing both at the same time is the goal to maximize this great position.
I must admit this is not a position for everyone. If you are not into the yoga type of positions you can keep on scrolling down, I won’t judge. I Think this is a perfect position if you are into yoga and super flexible. Make your foreplay part of your spiritual life. Now that is a sex life goal.
The Butler or Doggie goes oral
Ladies lean forward and enjoy the butler ride. Guys you can’t ask for a better perfect view. You can use one hand to grab onto her and use your other hand to help yourself. Now ladies if trying to maintain balance is a little difficult go on all fours. Doggie goes oral is basically the same position but less effort is put into your balance.
Riding in The North
My favorite position ever. Now, ladies, this is all about you here ride it however you prefer. Going at your own speed, at your own rhythm is just glorious. I call it the freeway. Guys don’t feel left out your mouth plays an important role here so keep it up.
This is a little bit more traditional cunnilingus position but it never fails to get the job done. It also allows some free movements on your hips sou you can help him hit the right spot.
On your mark, stretch, go! This is pretty awesome one, it’s all you can eat. Perfect views if you are doing your daily stretching.
What can I say, sex intends to keep us healthy. This is probably the ultimate 69 upgrade. Remember you should try new thing only if you guys are feeling comfortable. I’m sure that if this is not your favorite you will find one here if you haven’t already.
We can definitely get very creative with this traditional fellatio position. Twist it to the sides, make him sit a little bit up and use hands and other parts of the body like your breast to add more sensations.
The usual to go, please. Yes, take it on the go or very exciting places.
Get Out of the Bed
Accept the challenge of chasing excitement, spontaneity, and adrenalin in a moment of pleasure. Be the one in the relationship to surprise your partner with free spirit oral sex.
There is nothing more exciting and breathtaking that receiving oral sex in places and moments that are not expected.
Ladies, tag your it. It’s way easier to perform oral sex on a man in a car so manifest the pleasure. Make sure it’s a street with low traffic or maybe on the highway where cars are speeding, my preference is at night since the daylight makes it more obvious but if that excites you go for it.
His Or Your Parents House
If you guys are doing a family visit and have the chance to be alone for a few seconds go down. A very exciting time is when everyone is dining. Send a text to meet in the bathroom it doesn’t have to be a long escape is just a quick heart rate raise.
If you guys are camping or in a quite park go in between the bushes this is going to be really fun and exciting. Watch out for police and mosquitos :p
Give your partner a random visit to their office, make sure to lock the door and pull those pants down you guys might end up in a quickie
Patio or balcony
You don’t have to go too far, your balcony or patio is a perfect place to loosen up a little to the idea of random places. If you have a transit view it’s best that you do it at night with lights off.
Spicing It Up With Toys
Toys are always a plus when it comes to sex and excitement. Sometimes is hard to approach your partner with them at the right time. But there is no better time than oral sex.
Here is a list of perfect toys to include into your oral sex moments
Vibrating Gold Egg
Fresh by Leaf
Ida by LeLo
Share Your Story
Don’t be shy share an anecdote of your favorite position, toys, and places. Tell us where and how you like to practice oral sex. You can be the inspiration for my next blog, I’m so excited to read and share your story with all of these sexually open souls. Remember you can always call us, email us or publish it on a comment.
After a few drinks,
I tried to spice up the missionary position, and I made it rain! It is amazing how I squirted for the first time with no effort or plan ahead. So, it’s a pleasure to have a chance to introduce adventurist readers to that glorious climax point and how I’ve reached this perfection. I quote Goncalves Zavale, squirting, also known as the female ejaculation via vaginal orgasm:“A liquid most treasured and revered in ancient.”
Squirting is a release of fluid from the external genitalia associated with sexual activities. I want to clarify that this can be a solo or duo practice. Yes, any woman can squirt. Just because you’ve never had a vaginal orgasm doesn’t mean you can’t. With the right approach, it can happen. Some are just lucky to randomly experience it, explore why it happened, and how to repeat it (guilty).
I have long been exploring my sexual life. Overall, I felt more satisfied with my sexual life than the average women my age. I had no idea what I was missing until a romantic night with my boyfriend. I felt a nice tickle and an urge to pee all in one new and exciting feeling. Yes, ladies, it’s a weird peeing feeling, but it is the most amazing feeling ever, I promise.
I’ll share the secret: the G-spot.
Considered an erogenous zone located inside a woman internally. This magnificent part of our body is located about one-third of the way into the front of the vagina. I personally think that this is one of the most amazing parts of the female anatomy (sorry clitoris). Once it’s stimulated with hands, toys, or partner, it can take you to heaven.
There is a noticeable difference between the clitoral and G-spot orgasm for those who have experienced both. For years I could have sworn that it was impossible to surpass that splendid clit finish, not that these are the only two types of orgasm to have.
Some of the other types of orgasms are:
- The Coregasm Orgasm triggered by exercise
- The Skin – really similar to goose bumps
And it is possible to achieve a blend orgasms clitoral and vaginal, and that, my dear readers, is what I like to call perfection.
Basically, if I would have to describe and compare both, I would describe them like a sauce. A clitoral orgasm is a mild sauce, very basic, and it goes perfectly with everything. A vaginal orgasm is more like the spicy Mexican homemade sauce as it improves and complements sexual senses. The blend is like chile habanero sauce: really good, and almost too good to handle.
Even though there is little research about G-spot/vaginal squirting, there has been much controversy amongst researchers. Some claim that it is urine and others have found prostatic specific antigens (PSA), which confirm that the liquid in a female ejaculate comes out of the female urethra from the bladder.
I can’t exactly give you proof. But, ladies and gentlemen, I must insist everyone give it a go!
And now my story.
I’ve always been very sexual and open to trying new things with my sexual partners, and most important, with myself. When I was younger, I discovered the clitoral orgasm, and, for me, that was the door that opened my genuine sexual life.
I remember touching myself in the right spot. A few rubs with just a great imagination, and maybe seven minutes later, the most incredible feeling dominated my body, I couldn’t control my moves or voice. My legs were shaking, my abdomen got contracted, and my hand started to get really wet. It was a good thing I was in the house by myself. It probably lasted like 11 seconds, but it felt like 10 minutes in heaven. The sense of self- accomplish was at a 100% level. It was a new and best feeling so far, but I knew exactly what was going on: I reached the climax. And like a typical teenager, I would try it every time I could, even if it meant five times a day.
I felt invincible with my golden fingers. After that, I had a couple of sexual experiences with intercourse. It was good to have someone else to wet it for you. But if I was going back home to finish myself, I was definitely lacking something. I couldn’t understand how I could touch myself and orgasm so easily but my partners couldn’t figure it out. It took me a while to demand what I wanted and how I desired it.
Years after my first orgasm,
I decided to go on a fun cruise trip with my boyfriend. We like to try new things constantly, and it makes me very happy,but we never planned a move or an angle to hit the G-spot and make it rain. However, a couple of weeks before, while in the missionary position, I was getting more wet than the usual and he said: “If you feel like you need to pee, let it go.” Honestly, that made me almost laugh and lose some concentration that I had with my dear clit.
But that unique sensation came back that night on the cruise while I was in the same position. I felt the tickle and the slight urge to pee, so told him “Harder!” I kept on rubbing. OH MY GOD! I felt like I was a teenager again It was the most amazing climax I’ve ever experienced, and I mean it. So, we searched for some information, went back to the same position, and angled it just right. Now I have mastered it in my favorite position, missionary, and during my solo times.
I guess what I am trying to explain is that the most remarkable element for this glorious event to take place is to explore your partner’s anatomy and understand that everybody is different.
I took you guys on this trip because, for me, it has always been important to know my body before I can teach someone else how, where, and when to touch, and I still feel like that curious teenager. Exploring your sexuality has nothing to do with your age; it’s about self-confidence and safe practice. May the urge be ever in your favor.